i met this guy on myspace who lives 30 minutes away from me but we have never met....we have talked on the phone alot...for hours on end.....and i really am starting to like him....he is funny and we never run out of things to talk about....should i tell him what i am feeling or just leave it alone?
2006-09-18 05:49:31 · 36 answers · asked by krista_e2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him!! putting it all out there for love is a bold & daring move. You won't know till you try!
2006-09-18 05:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you keep it to yourself first. You might just be in love with the online and phone person of this person.
The real person may be very different. You will truly know what the person is like only after you go out with him several times to ascertain his character. This should be easy, cos he only lives 30 minutes away.
And to make the dates safe for you, why don't you meet him up at a diner or somewhere where it is crowded? Don't you go drinking with him on the first date cos you will never know what kind of person he really is... Be safe and have fun!
2006-09-18 05:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by syrope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, meet the guy first. Usually talking online and on the phone isn't enough to know how you feel. There also has to be a physical attraction.
Meet him in a public place...make it a group event so you are safe (one can never be safe nowadays) and have some fun. THEN after a while, move onto the next phase...
2006-09-18 05:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by The First 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just keep things the way they are for now because sometimes when you first get with someone everything is so good.sometimes after meeting and spending time things change.feelings change.reality sets in and this person may not be what you thought.If this is the case and you haven't expressed any romantic feelings there will be nothing to explain later.just be friends for now. wait until you've met and hung out for a while.I know it's hard now because when relationships are new they feel good.keep it good by not getting to serious,too soon.
2006-09-18 05:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave it alone. You are feeling all giddy and excited probably because this is exciting to you and out of the ordinary. Trust me this happened to me once. I was so excited about this guy and then after getting to know him... yuk! I couldn't even stand to talk with him. Meet in a public place for a drink and go from there a few weeks.
2006-09-18 05:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by bugjuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You met a wonderful guy.
He's everything you want in a dood.
Why are you even asking this?
Better question: Had you not met him on MySpace, would you still be hesitant to take the step?
Damn media and their fearmongering. Tell him how you feel POSTHASTE.
2006-09-18 05:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by kagetatewaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're interested in him. Obviously he has some connection to you or he wouldn't continue the conversations. It works both ways. Let him know. You could be missing out on something really great cause you don't want to take a chance. Go for it.
2006-09-18 05:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myspace romances are a longshot at best. You two may get along online and the phone, but if you meet him and turns out to be a creep, then you have no one to blame but yourself.
2006-09-18 05:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by doctorpapaswing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are on to something with this guy. Why would you want to leave him alone before you give him a try to see if he is real? Supose he is exactly what you are looking for...you won't know until you investigate the situation?
2006-09-18 05:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him!! I know its akward to meet up with someone you talk to on the phone but see whats its like in person first!
2006-09-18 05:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by smile114 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just leave it alone. you met him over the phone. he could be a psycho! remeber not to let your emotions run away from safety, especially if you are meeting people by internet or whatnot.
2006-09-18 05:54:30 · answer #11 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋