2006-09-18 05:44:43 · 16 answers · asked by Love7 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
“in love” verses “pure love”
Pure: unfiltered, unconditional, comes with acceptance, caring, and non-judgmental. It comes to you from the giver without strings. Never wanting or needing anything in return. It is not a love that is craved, or lusted for. It is gentle, soft, always there. When this love exist between two people, they can be apart for days, months, or even years and be as connected as they had never been apart.
It’s warm, calm, happy, joyful, with feelings of inner peace.
“in love” : A temporary state of love. Can last up to 1 ½ years, but usually shorter. It is based on thirst of love, a constant need to be satisfied, but never is. Someone “in love” can never get enough and wants to be near the one they are in love with 24/7. It is a clouded state of mind.
As they say, “love is blind” the person “in love” will make decisions to please the one they are in love with even if it hurts them. At the time they do not even realize they are doing so. Only after the “in love” period is gone do they see what they have done. They do this due to the fear of losing the person and fearing losing the feelings they get while being with this person.
2006-09-18 05:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can that they love you but they are not in love in love with you.. The difference is how the person really feels
2006-09-18 13:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my wife and split, I told her that I love her but I am not "in love" with her. I meant that I still had feelings for her and that maybe I still care but the strong romantic draw that put us together was gone. So I would say that people are trying to express degrees of love when they say things like that.
2006-09-18 12:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say I love you when you feel love for a person, and I'm not in love with you when you want to break up or excuse your actions.
2006-09-18 12:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you is an expression that most people use to express their feeling to ones another. A person could said I love you to almost anyone and any sex. For Example, their mom, dad, teacher, dog, and singer. But that does not means that "I'm in love with you". "I'm in love with you" is for relationship, example, boyfriend, girlfriend, and marriages...
2006-09-18 12:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by CrazyViet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you. your mom your dad friend. In love. Is you are in love with someone special. You want to be with that person every minute of the day
2006-09-18 12:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience Love is everlasting but to be in Love with someone is something you can fall out of
In love is more of a infatuation loving someone is more bonding
2006-09-18 12:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by Missbribri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Love you is more personal
2006-09-18 12:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"In love with you" means you are who the person saying it is happy with and wants to stay with you.
"I love you" is more of a caring for like an old friend or relative.
2006-09-18 13:08:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love u means that the person loves u with his heart.... nd in love with u means that he might not really lov u from heart but is in some way in love with u ....
2006-09-18 12:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by Parjanya Roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋