How can she love a guy like me..........?

Question

There's this girl that i knew in highschool since junior year. in junior year, she had a boyfriend, then in senior yeah they broke up and she started to talk to me, which i thought was weird, because by that time i hardly knew her. so we talked and got close to the point that we could share hugs, but i never took the iniative because i was scared that she was too good for me. I mean, i'm an uniteresting guy, with boring interests, i can't dance, never had a girlfriend, and am below average looking. anyway we graduated 2005, and startinf this month, i started to cross paths with her, and it seems like she's still trying to get to know me, however, i still let my fears keep me from truely opening up towards her. what would you do in my shoes? How do i even start a relationship with her?

Answer 1

geez, just ask her out and see how it progresses. Though with your attitude, I'd be surprised if you ever have a girlfriend. You know what is attractive and sexy? CONFIDENCE!

Answer 2

oviosly u keep on crossing paths with her becuase its a sign . U need to raise your self esteem n keep ur head up high. U never know she probaly does have feelings for u but u never let urself believe it. Go 4 it get her number ask her out on romantic dates then when the time is right ask to start a clean relationship.
BE A MAN !!! ~ wish u luck

Answer 3

Start slow. Ask her what shes doing for lunch and see if she seems receptive to an invitation. Then ask what shes doing for the weekend and see if she wants to see a movie or something. Small, casual insinations like that can get her to show you if she has any real interest or not.
Good luck.

Answer 4

OMG....first of all, you need to get some serious help for that low self esteem. To be totally honest, I can't see why anyone would go for you either if you think so low of yourself. Everyone has qualities, you need to realize that. If she is showing interest in you, then she must see something in you that even you can't see. So, before you worry about how to start a relationship with anyone get yourself in check. Be friends with her, maybe she can help you with some of your issues, because you can't love anyone if you don't love yourself.

Answer 5

First of all,stop raggin on yourself!It`s a turn-off!
Of course,you can`t open up to anyone else if you don`t feel good about yourself.Work on your self -esteem because a relationship with someone you think is too good for you,is not good!

Answer 6

She is interested... Grow some balls and let love take it's course. Love works in mysterious ways... You can say all these unconfident things about yourself but your just bringing yourself down...If this girl is interested take her out and get to know her also see what blossoms after that... Good luck

Answer 7

hmm..i say you should go for it...you will never know what could have happened if you dont try....and so what if you are below average? she may be looking at other things besides looks....you should just start striking up converstions with her and get to know her better...when the time is right, you will both know....but remember it takes time....dont rush into anything!
good luck

Answer 8

dont be too hard on yourself....you are a great guy..she would not talk to you if she thought any different about you....beauty lays within....get some self esteem and confidence and wow this girl...i can see a nice little romance happening here

Answer 9

let go of your fears you need to try something new... and if you want to start a relationship with her just ask her out on a date

Answer 10

i know you may be scared but open up, let her know the real you and just a little tip you must be doing something right or she wouldn't still be hanging around :-) !!