My bf lives about 1 1/2 hr away from me. His here every weekend and i noticed that his started to leave things behind like his towels or showergel but this time he left his shoes. Why is he starting to do that? As the weeks goes by it seems like he will end up leaving his clothes.
2006-09-18 05:23:46 · 14 answers · asked by dodgergirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well one thing is that it can give him excuse to come back and back again and also its more conviniant if he wants to chill at your house and then he wont have to bring his stuff home all the time
2006-09-18 05:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 27 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just b/c he likes being with you and if something would come up when he over at your house he dont have to run clear back to his. I use to do it to my ex all th etime. B/C I would spend like 80% of my time there. So why not leave some things there for me. You never know what might happen. I think that is a great sighn when he does that becasue like I said it means that he is really into you and that he want to be with you alot of the time.Trust it. Good Luck
2006-09-18 12:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by c_dilleynlancaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels confident and happy about your relationship -- confident that he will be coming back the next weekend, as usual, and happy because he wants to come back. And it is way more convenient to leave those types of things behind instead of having to take them with him back and forth. If you are uncomfortable with this natural progression in your relationship you should talk to him about it.
2006-09-18 12:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by Tiny T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be conveniece, and it could be that he is marking his territory. Which as macho as it sounds is actually his way of saying "hey I like you...I'm serious about you". If it bugs you say something, otherwise you may want to make a little room for him so things aren't cluttered.
2006-09-18 12:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might fell like tu casa is his casa dats a good sign of comfort he plans to return if his stuff it dare thinkin and includein u in his future or he is concerned some otha guy is visitin and he is markin his teritory or mabey he jus a forgetful kinna guy U gotta ask him if u really want to know he might not even know he is doin it
2006-09-18 12:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Real Chilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be simply out of convenience. He knows hes gonna be there next weekend so he doesnt care what he leaves.
2006-09-18 12:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is wanting to move in with you. If you dont want that do happen, slowly and gently remind him of taking his possessions back to his home. Otherwise he will understand you are accepting and receptive to his moving.
2006-09-18 12:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to assert himself in your living area.
This way if you're sneaking guys around behind his back, they're gonna find his stuff and know they're not the only one. heheh Just like girls do.
2006-09-18 12:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convenience. He hates having to lug it around, or worse, have to resort to using your stuff.
2006-09-18 12:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by girl with a gun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is slowly trying to move in with you.or it's just easier for him to have what he needs there when he is there instead of toating it all the time.
2006-09-18 12:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋