Honestly, I am just asking, is it okay to be a male and want more than friends with benefits? Is it wrong to stand strong to your beliefs? How many of you think it is cool to be friends with benefits? Just asking!!
2006-09-18 05:22:29 · 14 answers · asked by purpose7286 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly, i know how you feel. some may classify it as a 'mister nice guy' syndrome, but why pretend to be something you're not? i am NOT a player, and every time i've responded to a girl's booty call it turns out bad. it may sound cool when i'm talking about it to my dude friends, but they all know i'm not like that. some of them even think that it's ridiculous for me to complain about it because a lot of dudes are looking for that. i'm not saying you can't have fun, especially at a young age. but no matter how many female friends with benefits you've had, there comes a point in every man's life when you'll want more. there's no such thing as an old fonzie. your beliefs reflect your mature attitude towards relationships.
just go with your own flow.
2006-09-18 05:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by skywarp_38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's okay to be a male and want what you want. And no it is not wrong to stand for what you believe in. But i DO think it's wrong to be freinds with benefits... Because you might feel nothing for the girl or person your with but the other person or girl might have strong feelings for you in which your just f*cking with their emotions. No matter what anyone says theirs always someone that has strong emotions for the other person even though is just friends with benefits.
2006-09-18 12:30:37 · answer #2 · answered by Vampireme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits is not a good idea in my book. I think that one person always wants something more than the other and somebody will get hurt.
Of course its ok to be a male and want a real relationship. I think most men do, but just do not want to feel rejected so they settle for what they can get.
2006-09-18 12:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not wanting a relationship at the moment then I have no problem with friends with benefits. But there is nothing wrong with wanting more as long as the person you want that with wants the same thing
2006-09-18 12:26:53 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with friends with benefits but tis much better to want something more! stick to your beliefs! more people should do the same
2006-09-18 12:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, No, it's not wrong to stand strong on your beliefs. Then again, I married my friend.
2006-09-18 12:26:01 · answer #6 · answered by auld mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i don't think it's ok to have friends with benefits... what would that say about u?
2006-09-18 12:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by catharsis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends with benefits rock because you aren't commited
2006-09-18 12:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cool to choose what YOU want. Don't care what others think. Live your life how YOU need to.
Good luck.
2006-09-18 12:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Billy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's ok i have had a few in the past it's all up to the persons in that kind of relationship
2006-09-18 12:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋