Been dating this guy now for 3 months...he hasn't said that he loves me, we dont talk about how we feel for eachother, all he has said is that i am special. He went away for the weekend when he got back he said he missed me....i'm just confused, should I see how it goes or just end it now?
2006-09-18 05:06:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People who date each other ... aren't necessarily in love. It's not a given. If being special just isn't enough ... you might want to date some other people too ... unless dating is euphemism for screwing.
2006-09-18 05:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You cant put a time limit on love. It happens when it happens. And really if he says he loves you after 3 months he would be lying most likely. Before you love somebody you have to know them completly. Inside and out and thats hard to do. There is lust, which you both might feel.
He said he missed you. Thats a good thing. He told you you were special, thats a good thing. Some people have a hard time expressing their feelings when it comes to emotions, but I am sure in time, some way or another he will tell you how he feels.
I would just chill out for the moment, and take time to let your relationship grow.
2006-09-18 12:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a lot of "like". Love can't be rushed. Let it come naturally. When you love each other you will know. It usually takes longer than three months. Its ok to go slow and build a relationship and accept if for what it is.
If he says you are special he means it. Stick with it and it very well may turn in to love. If you keep asking him if he loves you you may scare him away before it can happen. He may not be ready for that yet. Relax and enjoy what you have.
2006-09-18 12:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Everyone's nervous at the beginning of a relationship. I'd go wiht the flow for now. Just because he doens't say he lvoes you doesn't mean that there is no hope for the relationship. Sometimes love takes time to develop. If he still misses you when he goes away, then it is a sign that he cares for you very much, and this could soon develop into love.
Give him time, males are very delicate things ;)!
Luv
Metia
XO
2006-09-18 12:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by metiae65 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well since he said that he missed you, then it means to me that he feels to me that he loves you.. But the thing is I think some guys don't know how to treat girls the right way to make the girls feel happy.. Or he might be the kind of people who don't like to show you what he feels inside because he is aware about you thinking that he is following you and diying for you.. I think you need to tell him that you love him and see how he react to that and see what he will respond to that.. I think that you shouldn't leave him just for that..
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-18 12:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by superguy1925 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel there is something there, then yes definately stick it out. If you're anxious to move on, then move on. Things don't have to happen so fast. a good relationship takes time. Some guys are slow or don't show their feelings.
2006-09-18 12:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id talk about it to him first. Ask him what his true feelings are. If he gives you a good enough answer, then stay, if not, move on.
You should know and feel it if someone really loves you. You are questioning it, so it make me wonder if he does love you, or if hes just passing the time.....and just waisting yours.
2006-09-18 12:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by ~~ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just relax. I've been there before. You don't want to rush it. Things will all come together at the perfect moment and then you will know for sure.
2006-09-18 12:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by not meant to be tamed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont know if you love a guy in 3 months obviously he likes you so why are you pushing it if you think you love him after three months you dont know what love is
2006-09-18 12:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy keep it going and enjoy the time you spend together. It is what it is, repeat that to yourself. If he loves you he will tell you when he is ready, go with the flow. if you don't it will drive you crazy, I would know.
Cheers darlin.
2006-09-18 12:10:36 · answer #10 · answered by scully_22ps 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋