Well do you or do you find it desperate and like what a loser would do...For example i saw this girl at the gym and DAMN!!!! was she flexible...obviously that turned me on....anyways I know all girls are different but what if i told her and started a conversation about how flexible she was.....would that be like what a desperate loser would do or would you find that nice?
2006-09-18 05:02:42 · 16 answers · asked by anonymous 27 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i do work out at the gym for myself and sports not to pick up chicks and also i would mean it sencerely....like you should see her.....lifting her head over her head and stuff like that....nothing forces or looking for something to say.....its the truth
2006-09-18 05:19:43 · update #1
First, yes, most girls appreciate compliments WHEN THEY ARE SINCERE.
Second, be careful here. She may have focused on developing flexibility, in which case, a sincere NON-SEXUAL compliment would probably warm the cockles of her heart. But, can you make that compliment in a NON-SEXUAL manner? If not, then don't do it, man. :-)
and Third, I don't believe she'd view you as a desperate loser if you did have a sexual thought about her while talking to her - unless, of course that's how you view yourself. (People in our environment are amazingly telepathic when it comes to our views of ourselves.) But, if your conversation is laced with innuendo, she just might think you are a jerk. Or not!?!!
2006-09-18 05:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy and exactly what you said.
If you stared at her boobs, stuttered and drooled a little, then, she's thinking desperate as anything. Especially if you weren't working out. If you go to a gym, workout, even if you are only there to score. It lends a little truth to your scheming.
If you complemented her then asked something about her workout schedule, then that's better. Show an interest in something beyond your woody and you will get further with her.
2006-09-18 05:09:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Do not start a conversation with a compliment. Woman/girls get suspicious of your attentions if this is your initial contact. Start a conversation with a general topic. Get the girls attention, and then interject a compliment. Nothing puts a woman more on the defensive than a compliment coming too soon.
2006-09-18 05:09:03 · answer #3 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with starting a conversation with a compliment but I dont think the flexibility thing is a good one. I would immediately think that your talking about my flexibility for a sexual purpose. Not a good first conversation/impression.
2006-09-18 05:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, nothing wrong with starting the conversation with compliments but just make sure they're sincere & not pure bulls! however, if guys start conversations with compliments, girls would normally think that they are just trying to catch the girl's attention...girls are more smarter these days! Ü
2006-09-18 06:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by -= Qtee =- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complement a girl on her little things. Like her tender hands, ear lobes or that twirly strand of hair.
Say "what a brilliant combination of beauty and brains she is."
Complement a girl for her thoughtfulness
just sound genuine
She'll like u.
2006-09-18 05:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by abhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling her she was really gd at gym might work, but not saying how flexible she is. Complimenting her on her looks is fine as long as u say it seriously.
2006-09-18 05:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by castlesinthesky050 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't start the convo with that compliment! Compliments are alwys nice, but they should come at the right time and never sound forced.
If you start the convo with a comment on her flecibility all she will hear is "I want to bed you" and she will be like... "freak!"
2006-09-18 05:11:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking that if it is a comment on some skill that she has, then she would probably like it. But if your comment sounds sexual (like comments on her looks or her flexibility), then she gets that all of the time and she probably thinks that it is lame by now.
2006-09-18 05:07:18 · answer #9 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love it when a guy complements me..it makes me feel good about myself..and I always tend to blush..I think everyone likes a complement now and again..When it comes from a guy you really like...thats even better..
:)
2006-09-18 05:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋