Has a man ever expressed, either verbally or through facial expression, that he was disappointed in your "development"? If so have you ever retaliated against a new boyfriend by putting down his "development"?
2006-09-18 03:58:14 · 9 answers · asked by george f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In response to the answer asking what I mean by development, Yahoo is very strict about racy terminology. I'm just being careful.
2006-09-18 04:04:21 · update #1
In reply to "offensive's" answer: I'm saying exactly that. And being cautious not to violate Yahoo's rules, I'm not going to mention what 7.5 inches refers to, but it made absolutely no sense to me. She didn't just laugh but started bragging about an ex whose "nose" was 9".
2006-09-18 04:13:04 · update #2
For attila: I've never belittled anyone, because I deeply love them all, big or small. But that was the last time I played house with her.
2006-09-18 04:16:50 · update #3
if he's not happy with how i've 'developed' than he won't be my man for long, put it that way ;)
Never had a problem though
2006-09-18 04:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt like that before... But when I was young and immature I would just go and find someone who likes my development.... But now that i am older you have to be confident in your self... just because he is not happy so what.... he does not have a heaven or hell to put you in... So why must you alter your life to make him happy... has it occurred to him that you might not be happy because of him.... has he ever thought that you have not developed into the woman that he wants you to be because he is not the man you need him to be
2006-09-18 11:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I've felt that way. Most women have at one time or another. But, NO I wouldn't take it out on the "next guy", you know?!! Two wrongs don't make a right-- thats what Mom always said.
2006-09-18 11:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by POPPY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have felt belittled but i never put someone else down because of it, that just seems immature. every one is different and people should except that.
2006-09-18 11:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, what do you mean development?? And I am sure that all of us have felt belittled at one time or another
2006-09-18 11:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by flashypsw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no never,but the men feel belittled at times in my company.
2006-09-18 11:16:32 · answer #6 · answered by glamdoll 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every woman feels like this, at least once in your life your going to be belitted by someone who thinks there better than you ...
2006-09-18 11:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by yelenia0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes - very hurtful!!! and no i never retaliated
2006-09-18 12:18:34 · answer #8 · answered by JUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that she laughed at your little pee pee?
2006-09-18 11:06:58 · answer #9 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋