They seem to flirt, flatter and be charming until you have real feelings for them, then they seem to stop trying and drift away? What's wrong with them?
2006-09-18 03:57:36 · 19 answers · asked by rose_lin_uk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They think that they've already got you hooked, so there's no reason to try to charm and impress you anymore. They become complacent.
2006-09-18 04:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some men it might be the chase as others have said. Although a lot of those guys are not as cool as they act. They get the girl and eventually their insecurity starts showing by saying things like, "I'm so luck to have you baby, you're so much better than me...". Dumbazz. That's how you lose a beautiful girl.
In my case, I simply wouldn't believe you. Everytime a girl ever told me she loved me she was either: real REAL immature OR she just wanted to get something out of me.
Last one who told me she loved me......over and over and over. She was jobless (I was too). I had some money though. She had a little bit as well. We hung out at places where it didn't cost money, or not very much, and we bought each other things (although I always spent more). My choice. Then she got a job and some money. I made the mistake of telling her I loved her too. It wasn't long before she was gone.
I barely believe my own mother when she tells me she loves me.
Don't worry about the ones you described. They're insecure. Worry about the ones who are distant from the start. The ones that prat you, and make you jump through hoops just to win them over.
The ones you described are self-loathing and insecure. They can't fathom how anybody could love them. Full of self-pity too. I know because I am that, and I'm the other type I've described as well.
2006-09-18 04:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by nathancarson23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men are not like that buy about 80% are , i no thats funny , but to understand a men you will become a better women for it , if your man loves you after the chasing and charming is over you settle in like friends ( in the eyes of a men ) , start creating things for both of you ,good things that both of you enjoy , men get bored after a while dosnt mean hes not love with you . remember try to understand the way they are in life.
keep him away from the malls and weddings and its football season to
2006-09-18 04:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are this way. Part of it has to do with the women too, but some are just interested in the chase rather than the relationship.
2006-09-18 04:01:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl. If the girl starts nagging, complaining, controlling and gets to the nerve of the guy, (which they did not before falling in love or before getting serious with) then YES ! men intend to get bored of those situation.
2006-09-18 04:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you to keep your man interested.
He may shpw signs of not being interested becuz you may not be doing the things you used to becuz you somehow feel secure.
Don't ever do that, entice him and make him feel special everyday. Surprise him and make him see just how good you are, that he'll never be excited or happy with anybody else.
2006-09-18 04:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but some men get bored with you once you've had sex with them. Consider yourself better off without a man like that if he does.
2006-09-18 03:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They don't if it is the right guy.. apparently you still need to keep looking for Mr. Right instead of Mr. RightNow
2006-09-18 04:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, keep it in your mind that 'all fingers are not equal'. Make your analysis perfect than say a word.
2006-09-18 04:30:15 · answer #9 · answered by Saood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the relationship isn't challenging it gets boring.. change it up a bit and see if that helps
2006-09-18 04:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by yelenia0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋