Just curious about God's views on oral sex, french kissing or even petting in the courtship before marriage. In order not to involve in pre-marital sex and unwanted pregnancy, how can the couple resist the temptation? Is Masturbation sin?
2006-09-18 03:53:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I think that God wants you to be pure as long as possible. If oral sex isn't a sin, then would it be ok for a girl to have group oral sex with a dozen guys in an hour? How about eating sh*t? Is that a sin? If it's not, do you think that it would be good for you and your purity?
The body is the temple of the Lord, from what I recall. So, what would you do in the Temple? Would you French kiss? Do what you would do in a Church. Have respect for yourself, and control temptation. You are beautiful, and you should keep yourself that way. Only a person who sees that beauty should be allowed to touch it.
We all know the difference between innocence and vileness. Some things are more controllable than others. Nature wants us to make babies. God wants us to remain spiritually clean. I would put masturbation down as a minimal sin, provided that it's not your life's destiny. Other than that, remember, you are to respect yourself as if you were a church. Purity has its reward. The vileness of promiscuity may be sexually exciting, but it is spiritually destructive, since it robs you of the special bond between you and your beloved.
2006-09-18 04:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by freeetibet 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Things that sincere Christian should avoid is not limited to what the Bible is specific in banning. As an example, see this statement unequivocally: "The marriage is honorable among all marital bed and spotless, because God the judge fornicate and adulterers." (Hebrews 13:4) Even non-Christians and those who do not know anything about Bible correctly conclude that the verse prohibits adultery. This and other biblical texts make it clear that God condemns sexual relations between a married person and another that is not their legitimate spouse. But to say of two single people who practice oral sex? Many teenagers say there is nothing wrong with that, because it is not sexual. Can a Christian considered oral sex as something pure? Hebrews 13:4 and 1 Corinthians 6:9 God disapproves state that both adultery and fornication to (the Greek porn). What exactly is fornication? The Greek term involves the use of the genitals with intent immoral, both natural and so pervert. Includes all forms of illicit sexual relations outside of marriage approved by the Scriptures. Thus, it includes oral sex, even though many teenagers around the world have been informed, or come to the conclusion, that this practice is acceptable. The true Christian does not guide his way of thinking and their actions by the opinions of "conversations error and misleading of the mind." (Titus 1:10) They follow the highest standard, that of Scripture. Instead of looking for excuses to practice oral sex, they believe that biblically it is fornication, or porn, and train according to their conscience. - Acts 21:25, 1 Corinthians 6:18, Ephesians 5:3.
2016-03-17 22:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now this is a complicated question indeed. Depending on what religion you follow and who your God is all these things may or may not be acceptable before marriage. According to Bill Mound Hound Clinton. . . . Oral Sex is. . .or is not sex? Note to Bill. . . it IS sex you schmuck. . .that's why it's called oral SEX!! Anyhow. . . . there is no way to avoid temptation. If two people want each other. . . . that want will only grow stronger with every bit of contact you have with each other! Pregnancy however. . . that can be avoided in many ways. . . abstinence, the pill, condoms, pulling out, the rhythm method and etc. Be happy if you are with someone whe creates temptation for you. I personally believe any god. . . . would not be upset if two people who really care about each other have sex before marriage. And one last thing. . . masturbation . . well. . . if I'm watching a lady masturbate. . . there is no way I will be able to stop myself from touching her!
2006-09-18 04:18:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of these are acceptable before marriage.
Society is so bombarded today by sex that it is very difficult for young people not to think about sex.. They even teach it in the schools so how can a teenager escape.
Paul told Timothy to FLEE YOUTHFUL LUSTS. This means stay away from them, and I realise that they come after you now days and you can't live in a cave somewhere.. It is even hard to find a good church nowdays...
To do the right thing you will have to cultivate your relationship with God and stay close to him. Also realise that sex is reserved for marriage and any foreplay is a lead up to sex and not appropriate before marriage.
You must be led by the Holy Spirit and not walk in the flesh or you won't be able to withstand this. Try not to watch much television and rent movies that are not sexually orientated. The world has come to a point that all this is difficult and I am very sorry for young people today as they have a terrible future ahead with what is going on in the world.. Just like the verse below, we need to come out and be seperate, this takes some strong self control now days as it is just too much for most people to even try to control.. I can only say "Give your life to Christ and do your best."
2Cor 6:17 Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
2006-09-18 03:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a sin,corinthians 7 v1-3 it is good for a man not to touch a woman,and for every man to have his own wife and every wife her own husband,dont listen to those who sin and want you to sin,but the only way to resist temptation is to just resist,you need to receive the Holyghost to have power over that temptation and to purge the lust out of your system because thats all it is,i have not done any of that stuff in almost 2 years and im not an ugly person or anything but its just the Lords Grace and his keeping power if you want to be kept
2006-09-18 04:09:45 · answer #5 · answered by holyghost130 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although I'm not Christian myself, I can say I do remember that the crux of what counts as sex is based around the removal of virginity from a female. There's a passage referencing something about the breaking of the hymen but like I say not being Christian I can't direct you to it. I'm not sure if there is a point for any male, but I'm guessing it would be said act or any act of copulation.
2006-09-18 03:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Maxx Power 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dear Ms. Angel,
I am afraid the answer to all your questions is yes!!! It is best to abstain from all "sexual" forms of contact. Now that being said, it is oh so difficult to do, but then dieing on a cross is no cake walk either. If one can persevere and restrain from the pleasures of the flesh, it is said that the joys shall be larger than the wealth of Everest (must have been some ancient rich dude). I admire your quest, and wish you well....
Huggs and Kisses,,,,
Lonnie
2006-09-18 04:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pray to God and give your life to Christ, No, No; Sex of any kind (including Oral)before marraige is a sin. The couple can resist temptaion by putting Christ in the center of their relationship. Finally, Yes Masturbation is a sin.
2006-09-18 03:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by JesusFreak 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Make sure that the both of you are on the same wavelength when it comes to all things sexual and what is allowed before marriage.
Holy tradition dictates that any form of pre-marital sex is inappropriate. You will NOT burn in hell if you had pre-marital sex before marriage but I know of some people who suffered terribly because their pre-marital sex was exposed.
2006-09-18 03:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
yes,yes,and yes!!!! oral sex,no matter what anyone says, is sex!!!! god does not want us ladies givin' away milk before the bothers buys the cow!!!!! masturbation is also a sin!!!!!! french kissing and petting are okay,but you have to be careful, becuase those can lead to sex and sin!!!!! the best way to fight temptaion is to save yourself.
2006-09-18 04:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by aerinisthebest 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋