You see a man with a girl, be sweet with her but he still denies he has a relationship with her. Everyone's saying that he does like the girl based on his actions but he keeps on denying it to his present gf.
2006-09-18 03:41:47 · 15 answers · asked by annika23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what does a girl have to do in this situation? will you follow your mind and get out of the relationship but be unhappy? or will you stay in the relationship and be happy for now but at the back of your mind you're still thinking about him cheating on you?
2006-09-18 04:06:43 · update #1
Deny Deny Deny...guy code. They deny it until the truth is smacking him in the face....then they usually run from the problem. It's immaturity honey, move on to someone worth keeping around. This guy is going to grow up to be a professional cheat!
2006-09-18 03:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he really is cheating, then denial offers some desperate hope of escaping without having to face the consequences. That's not peculiar to men, of course... most people of both genders try to get themselves out of this particular hotseat through bald-face denial and lying. Why? Probably because sometimes it works. Ever have a friend tell you he/she caught his/her lover cheating, then the next time you check on it, they're still together? And then they tell you how the cheater "explained everything" or "it was all a mistake"? You can see why if this worked once, the cheating individual might try it again.
Of course, the person may not be cheating. The girl may just be a close friend whom he cares about, and is sweet to because of some other history together, as friends. It's possible. There *could* be a reasonable explanation, and it's important to hear a person out before relegating them to "cheater" status.
2006-09-18 10:49:39 · answer #2 · answered by derandnet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he said he wasnt with her because theyre not in a relationship theyre dating. How can everyone else speak for this man? If you two get together would you still listen to what everyone else says or what he tells you? That could be a problem if you get with this man.When he is with this female does he still speak to you? Has he asked you out since he has been seen with this female? If the answer is NO then they might be trying to start a relationship and he might not want to hurt you because he see that you like him also.
2006-09-18 10:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the hell ask a question like this when girls/women are the same way. **** I know a woman that denied it with on my mother's grave and ****, well that is till I showed her the video of her doing it lol(don't ask how I got it) ;)
2006-09-18 10:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is funny, because something happened to me last night, i've been dating this man who just got seperated from his wife...well he called me his ex's name then kept trying to deny it until he finally gave in...he did that because in his past marriage of 8 years he had to watch every little thing he said...b/c she would always find something to get mad over. He's basically taught himself to "omit" things and curve the truth b/c of the fear of getting bitched at for nothing
2006-09-18 10:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by mary H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because,
number one: you gotta stick to your lie.
number two: just because he likes her a flirts with her doesn't mean anything's going on.
You know what you should do? Become friends with her. At least to find out enough about her, like does she have a boyfriend. Maybe he would leave you for her, especially since you act so jealous. Maybe, however, he's not able to pull it off....yet.
2006-09-18 10:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by nathancarson23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same reason some women cheat and do the same things men do.
bird in the hand, 2 in the bush.
2006-09-18 10:45:11 · answer #7 · answered by seanachie60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
causemost men cannot stand confrontation with a female - they'd rather be known as lying and cheating dogs than be truthful with the opposite sex - how sad for them.
2006-09-18 11:04:55 · answer #8 · answered by livetall1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they think you're stupid enough to believe 'em. And actually, a LOT of women are.
DON'T run back to him and prove him right...it will just reinforce his playa status in his mind.
2006-09-18 10:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Rivrav 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they want to get away with what they're doing. It's obviously fun and they can't see how obvious it is to everyone.
2006-09-18 10:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋