I need to woo back my ex girlfriend we have been split since july and i thought i was over her, i seen her out on saturday night and realised i wasn't, she wasn,t with another man and she was not doing anything to make me jealous, i love her to bits but she never knew this when we was together!
we are not even on speaking terms at the moment and i don't no what she feels about me
any help ideas would be appreciated
2006-09-18 03:17:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we split up because we had to at the time, we both still really wanted to be with each other, thats also the reason we ent talking because for us not to be together we had to have total cut off from each other, even before i saw her i still used to think about her alot!!
2006-09-18 03:24:11 · update #1
tell her how you feel if she doesnt feel the same then you know where you stand and you can move on from her but then again she may feel the same and you can get back together
2006-09-18 03:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-02-12 03:27:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her that you still have feelings for her, otherwise she will never know. She sounds like a great girl not doing anything to make you jealous, so she might have feelings for you too.
Maybe you can buy her a card along the lines of "miss you", and inside write all the stuff you just told us, even if she doesn't feel the same about you, at least she knows and you can move on.
2006-09-18 03:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would anyone split up because they had to? Was your relationship illegal?
I suggest you get in touch with your ex-girlfriend and ask her out again ... start with coffee/lunch and take it from there. Obviously the agenda for lunch would include why you're not speaking to each other and how she feels about you...
2006-09-18 03:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you seriously consider wether its cos you love her why you want her back or cos youre used to her. Does the reason you broke up still apply? If so then you'll get back together with the same problems and just break up again anyway. Also list the pros and cons of the relationship. If the cons outway the pros then let go. Do you want to make her happy, do her actions show that she wants to make you happy. If so then its worth it. If not then find a new chick to dry your eyes.
2006-09-18 04:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ella G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers are good! So is " I'm sorry. And I love you to bits and I'm sorry I never told you when we were together and I'd love to get back together with you. I realise my life is meaningless without you. Can you forgive me and can we try again?"
Always worked on me but then I'm a sucker for an apology.
Good luck.
2006-09-18 03:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be its time to move on, You have to look deep as to why to split, Was it you or her ?
You now want some thing you can,t get at all ? Once your back it will be the same again trust me.
I don,t know how old you are but you read as a young man,
Move on would be the best, Unless she want you ?? and on your terms
Take care David B
2006-09-18 03:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by David B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll help you tap your ex.
what you do is get some of your guy friends she has never seen..and tell them to follow her in an alley
they harass her and then pop out from some garbage can and save the day.
you'll be her hero and you'll put out
2006-09-18 03:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of why you broke up to begin with, the fact that you saw here after a couple of months and felt something doesn't mean its time to go back to her. You might woo her back and in 2 months realize why you left her to begin with
2006-09-18 03:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by wilfreds805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take a break from all this emtional stuff, and just chill out at a bar or something, call out your best mates. and after that boozing session, wash up, and appear at her door with a boquet of roses, or maybe you should send her sweet cards, asking her about how she's been, before appearing at her door. perfect!
2006-09-18 03:31:24 · answer #10 · answered by viii_red_butterfly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i dont get is why men never tell their other halves what they trully feel bout em until after they have broken up. look mate its been two months maybe she might just be over you. you can try but if she hates you what makes you think she gonna take you back. you should have told her whilst you was with her how much you loved her. its called communication. try using it on your next relationship! good luck with that!
2006-09-18 03:23:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋