Me n my bf got into fite n i B*tched cuz he didnt tel me bout sum stuf n he wants us 2 tel each otha evrythin n i dint tel him my feelins rite away and i wanted2talkbut he didnt want 2 walk 6 blocks so i said lets talk 2morrow n he was 2 call we agreed n he did wel i wanted 2 talk privatly so evrythin i say woldnt go in 1 ear n out da other w/ a friend dar n he got pised sayin u aint takin me from friends u can talkinfront of them im sick of da drama n it was overnow hewont talk n i kno i should let him go 4adayor2 but he is sayin hehasa gf now h he not the type 2 do dat b4 wen we brok up he flirted n stuf to guyswoulddo n he not even really datin her from want hisfriend told his gf it was2 keep me away from da house i caled him bout sum of my stuf n iwanted 2 alk2 him n he told me i have 2 go my gf is on the other line n he swore on our Relaship dat he truely loved me n wanted 2 b w only me he woldnt lie bout it i kno for fact n he said if u dont know i dont kno n i dont kno wut 2 do
2006-09-18 03:14:28 · 3 answers · asked by dangerous_angel_gurl1116 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i do understand the situation you are in right now, At this poin of time, whatever suggestion no matter how true it would be, cannot really be a sureshot way to success.
Because every relationship is diefferent and needs to be handled in a different way.
You could perhaps understand these things before you think about how to act...
Whether you're the one doing the dumping or the one getting dumped, breaking up is always hard to do. Although you might feel as if you'll never get over this, you will.
Steps:
1. Call all of your friends - even the ones you may have ignored during your recent relationship - and make plans immediately. Now is not a good time to be alone.
2. Vent when the need arises. Good friends will let you take out the photo album (again) and cry (again) and rant (again) - and they'll still love you.
3. Allow yourself time to grieve. If you don't let yourself wallow in self-pity for a while and mourn the good times lost, your heart may harden to future relationships and love.
4. Realize that this sadness will pass.
5. Distract yourself with fun once you're tired of mourning. Movies, group sports, classes or a favorite CD can help get your mind off your loss.
6. Indulge yourself when you're feeling lonely. Try a massage, a weekend trip away with a best friend, a great new outfit - whatever helps you feel good about yourself.
7. Begin dating again when you're ready. Have friends set you up, and go to all those parties you might otherwise skip.
8. Analyze what went wrong in the relationship only after you have rebuilt your self-esteem. If you attempt to do this too soon, you're headed for another downward spiral.
9. Remember the good aspects of the relationship (there must have been some), and then get excited about the new direction your life is suddenly taking. Change can be awesome!
Tips:
Keep in mind that clean breaks are generally better than those minibreaks or sort-of breakups that are a bit easier to deal with at the time. Upon breaking up, attempt to resolve lingering issues, then take some time away from each other, even if you intend to remain friends.
2006-09-18 04:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry don't have time to read your life story.Thanks for the 2 points.
2006-09-18 12:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by $GET SOME$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should slap you for your drama.
man! be lucky you are dating. The majority of people never had boyfriends/girlfriend.
2006-09-18 03:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋