It was a wild party that went out of control. Several of my friends got very friendly with the stripper as did I – we had some alone time. I’m a little worried that word of what happened will get to my fiancé. He knows some, but not all. Really looking for answers from other with like experiences.
2006-09-18 03:06:51 · 18 answers · asked by Meg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you are ready for marriage. If you were you would have been in better control of yourself. Then you would not have guilt right now.
2006-09-18 03:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that our fiancee will value you much more when he finds out that you had sexual experiences. Anyway I would not tell him before the wedding in order not to raise any mixed feelings. Later on, there will be many good opportunities for you to let him know things, and always, of course, make clear for him that he is your choice, that you care for him and love him but that these (or other things) have happened cause you are a beautiful attractive young woman with an open mind he will love you more for that
2006-09-18 03:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say tell him everything that happened no matter how bad it is, because sooner or later he will find out, trust me he will, don't have doubts about that, and if someone else tells him and not you, he won't forgive you.....probably if you tell him he still won't forgive you but at least he might give you some credit for telling him the truth.....And if you worry so much about him, why did you screw up in the first place?? Honesty is a very important thing in a relationship, so I say tell him EVERYTHING, cause like I said someone else will tell him, and they won't be nice about it, that you can be sure of! Good Luck
2006-09-18 03:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen we all know what happens at bachlorette an bachelor parties, if you really feel uncomfortable tell him he should know how to react. But I don't think its that big of a deal, hell I mean did you have sex with the stripper??? I doubt it so forget about it its just your last crazy night becfore you are his forever, don't worry about it, whats it to him anyway...
Good Luck
2006-09-18 03:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea like if he had stripper at his bachelor party and she gave him oral do you really think he would tell you? ... sometimes things are just best keep to yourself. Now if there where photos taken then I would worry
2006-09-18 03:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Fanuc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you exchanged body fluids you must, you must, tell him what happened. You should tell him anyway. You can't start a marriage with this in your heart. And it is a bomb ticking. Be humble. You screwed up, no matter what your friends did.
Please be careful. Our actions have consequences.
2006-09-18 03:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by lil'oleJewler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god that's incredibly turning me on! I don't even agree with it, but I'm still getting really aroused thinking about it. I think you should keep it to yourself and hope he doesn't find out. If he does just tell him the bitches are lying. hehe and check out my 360 page hottie.
2006-09-18 03:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never tell.
If he ever asks tell him you were so drunk you don't even remember the stripper being there.
NEVER EVER TELL. He really doesn't want to know.
2006-09-18 03:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me, the real question that should be asked is, how did it get out of control. if you truly love your fiance that much, it should have never happen.and you should have nothing to keep from him.
2006-09-18 03:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meg
the most selfish thing to do is to tell; it may make you feel better but he doesnt want to know.
Nevert tell, never admit. It never happened
2006-09-18 03:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by aprilx4u 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋