What should I do?

Question

I don't want to be at college anymore, my friends have either gone to a different college or unniversity. The only reason i am still ehre is because I liked this guy and I can't talk to him. Too shy. Also whenever I look at him I always look really angry. Plus I'm sick of sitting in the stupid lessons and feeling left out. Should I leave college? Or is that too much of a ridiculous reason. Plus how do you talk to someone. Can you talk to somneone half way through the year after never talking to them before? If so what about? I'm so confused.

Answer 1

ever heard this b4? "lifes a dance u learn as you go sometimes u lead sometimes you follow, don't worry bout what you dont know, lifes a dance you learn as you go.....-john micheal montgomery

you have to take a chance. what if this guy if hes single, what if hes the one. talk to him, ask him tohave lunch with ya at school(college), or give him ur number and if he doesnt call you that day give it time.

you never know till you take that chance. im 29/m and im shy to this day still not married or no gf cause i dont take the chances, so i should listen to my own advice.

as far as the college thing, y did you even go to college if ur not wanting an education. thats y u went right? make new friends, be adventorous.

confront the dude introduce urself tell him you'd like to be friends. whats the worse that can happen? embrassment? well havent we all been through that?if this guy is the only reason y u are still in college, thats kinda dumb, sorry to be blunt. but u should be going to further ur education. not that im sayin dont talk to anyone. but u wanna good education right? ur going for a reason right? well then........ hope this is a good answer

Answer 2

first of all it is a ridiculous reason to leave college, girl you need an education, you're going to quit only because you feel left out?? Come on, finish college, if you don't you will regret it in the future, that you can be sure of....And if you never talked to him, it doesn't matter you can still do it, there's no rule against that......Just try to be cool and don't look angry!! You can talk to him about school maybe, how he's doing, anything like that......I'm the way you are, very shy.....but we have to put ourselves out there, what's the worst that could happen? Get rejected? well at least you'll know that you tried and you won't always wonder what if!! Good Luck

Answer 3

What was your reason for going to college? You can't choose a college based on which one your friend choose or if there's a guy that you can pick up while you're there. No you should not leave college. You should stay, get a good education and make a good life for yourself. Study so that you can also become part of the lessons. Change your mindset about college, yourself, finding love and all of that. Without an education you won't make it very far in life. A high school diploma is not enough anymore. Soon a bachelor's degree will be obsolete. If you get a good education though, you add respect to your name and you will be able to choose who you won't to be with and not have to be chosen. Boost your morale and self esteem and begin to see yourself with new things and in a new light. Love will come if you are patient.

Answer 4

Definitely talk to this guy... doesn't matter what about. I wish more girls came up to me and started chatting! Chatting someone up is really awkard for me too, i feel TOTALLY stupid just saying hi and commenting on the weather or something, but once the initial weirdness goes away, it's no big deal. You don't want a life full of what ifs. And if he's not interested, no big deal, plenty more fish and all that.

As for college, talk to a tutor or student advisor if you have one. they might be able to help in all sorts of ways. I left university after three weeks (!) which completely made life hard for a while, but i'm so pleased i did, as it led to new avenues and life's much better for me. Then again, my mate dropped out of college, no qualifications, and really, really regrets the decision, as he has litttle in the way of qualification and his job sucks big ones You are really lucky to get free education, so many people don't have the luxury. A cliche but it's true!

Good luck x

Answer 5

Don't leave college unless it's in the best interest of your future. If you are lonely, join a club or something to meet new people. Colleges have tons of social clubs. As far as this guy goes, you should initiate a conversation with him. Ask him about something in class if you have a class together. If you don't, ask him what he's majoring in or where something is located on campus. If he's interested, you'll know. If not, meet someone else. Leaving school bc your friends did or bc you can't talk to a certain guy is childish and ridiculous.

Answer 6

First of all next to your health Education is most important and you have to decide if staying there with the above in mind is the best step to take. As for the guy you like you would never know how it will turn out if you don't talk to him. If you are too shy have someone else do the introduction. If it was meant to be then so be it. It is like this you can't win if you don't play . Best wishes and good luck.

Answer 7

Don't leave college for that reason. Strike up a conversation with him. Make it something related to school. For instance, as he's leaving the room after class, fall in line beside him and make a comment such as "Man this class is hard, I'm not getting it at all". If he's interested he will start talking. If this doesn't work on him, try it on others, it's a great way to make new friends.

Answer 8

You need to acknowledge that you are still too immature to make any of these decisions. Do not make any changes in your life until you feel more decisive. When a person feels as undecisive as you are right now about so many different things the best thing is to Not do anything different. Perhaps you could read some self help books on shyness, and stay in school in the meantime.

Answer 9

It is kind of a silly reason yea, you could jepordise your future over something as stupid as leaving because your friends did. You really wanna do that? And yea you could talk to someone half way through the year, that's what I used to do and it wasnt a problem. And if you're talking about the guy you like then all the more reason, guys like women coming up to talk to us, and what have you got to lose?

Answer 10

Ask the general questions like how long has he been attending or what major is he going for.

Usual ice breakers I would assume- and try not to look so angry!! Think of something nice at all times so that you can be approached where the other person won't feel so intimidated!