2006-09-18 02:50:21 · 11 answers · asked by mary H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looks like you're with the right guy...have him lead you through it...
follow his example, fake it 'til you make it...being comfortable in your own skin is wonderful!
2006-09-18 02:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by bigmammarush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone is different, he is his own individual. Just because he's alright with flaunting his body doesn't mena you have to be and if he doesn't like the idea that you are more conservative well then you'll are meant to be together, sorry!!! You do and be about your body as you like don't change the way you are for some man. Good Luck and have a wonderful day...
2006-09-18 02:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mary, looks like he's more secure about his birthday suit then you are. I am of the opinion that you should "Enjoy your body. Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it, of care what others think of it. It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own."
Moments and opportunities to share yourself with someone you care about are like passing cars on the highway. You'll never see the same opportunity again. Tomorrow isn't promised us. So today is all we have. Think of it like that, and your own insecurities will seem rather small in comparison. If he's worth your effort, he's not attracted to you for your body only anyway. Live life, don't live in fear of it. Good luck.
2006-09-18 02:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men, particularly those who have a history as "players" , are more open with their bodies than others. My advice would be to be patient. Develop a good relationship and sense of trust and the comfort with your body and with him will come naturally. If it doesn't, then you probably are with the wrong man for you.
2006-09-18 02:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by ncmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to gain some confidence in your body.
Walk around naked when you are home alone and start to get the feeling for it.
2006-09-18 02:52:54 · answer #5 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem with my ex boyriend , it made me feel intimidated , but he took it real slow and eventually i became really confident about my body , also tell him and he should understand and try help good luck
=D
2006-09-18 02:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know the guy first. if you develop trust you will get over that body thing!
2006-09-18 02:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by julesloveslife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to get over it ? Tell him to slow down. You just aren't ready for that yet. It's his problem , not yours. Good Luck ! :)
2006-09-18 02:54:31 · answer #8 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-18 02:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. He just wants to get you in the sack
2006-09-18 02:52:06 · answer #10 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋