My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years..His birthday was last week and I went all out for him, ballons, fancy rest, presents, etc..Now my birthday was yesterday. I asked him a few day s ago to see what we were going to do that night, and he said "well, I have some clients I need to train", he is a personal trainer, but he had no problem taking off from his clients last week when I took him out..so the thing is he didnt even come over after, or just want to spend time with me after he was done, in all honesty that is what I wanted...So, I was really hurt yesterday and later that night he knew I was because I told him that he hurt me...he said he was sorry, but I told him that I shouldnt have to tell him these things and he should've gone all out for me , it is not even like I want all these presents..he didnt even try to spend time with me on my special day...
2006-09-18 02:50:11 · 7 answers · asked by nrsechica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He was insensitive & even for a guy, his blowing you off without even a .50 cent card from the Dollar Tree is really crappy. Especially since you went all out. He chose not to see that since YOU went all out for him, HE was supposed to go all out for you. My ex b/f blew off my birthday this year, even tho I had done thing for his the week before - so when he dumped me several months later, I guess I could look back & see that was the beginning of the end. I hope you don't face the same thing, but what he did was inexcusable. Maybe you should ditch him & find somebody worthy of your time & love . . . Happy Belated Birthday - I hope next year is better!
2006-09-18 02:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, did you do what you did because you wanted something in return, or did you do it out of the pleasure of giving?
Has he always been this kind of guy or is this unusual for him? If he has always been like this, then why are you hurt, YOU chose to be with him. If this is unusual for him then you should probably give him a break.
2006-09-18 09:57:05 · answer #2 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have been hurt too. Men can be really insensitive at times. I would seriously tell him that he had better make it up to me and FAST!
2006-09-18 09:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he couldn't take another day off. Maybe he didn't want a big party and went just to please you.
It was nice for you to go all out for him but that doesn't mean he has to go all out for you.
Relationships are full of give and take. I know it was your birthday but it sounds like you were being a bit selfish to me
2006-09-18 09:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no your not being too sensitive you just want to be with him on your birthday and he should've been there for you
2006-09-18 10:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by carissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him
2006-09-18 09:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by phil d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is a punk azz
2006-09-18 09:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋