Okay, I'm a cute girl (NOT perfect or anything, but I can definitely turn heads)... How can I make my boyfriend want me more? We've been dating for almost a year, and things are getting a little boring. What can I do? Sexually AND otherwise? Details if possible! THANK YOU!
2006-09-18 02:43:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this cat really worth it? You are trying to figure out ways to get him to give you more attention. Really think about it! Is he doing that for you?
2006-09-18 02:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes after the first year of a relationship, things start to get comfortable. Good for you, for trying to start the fire burning again. First let me say that sometimes a little time away from each other will help bring back some spark. Play a little hard to get, try not to be so available, that way when you see each other, your ready to attack. Try surprising him once in awhile with nothing on except a coat and high heels. Try having sex in a new location. Be sponatneous!
2006-09-18 03:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't necessarily need ur beauty to satisfy him fully- if he loves u, he loves u inside out not outside-outside. So try to find a way to make the relationship better by sending him secret notes to meet u someplace (park maybe?) and have a picnic @ midnight. Do small but thoughtful things together. Or runoff to some place far away that none of u know for dinner. U don't need to revolve around "cute". Imagination is the key.
2006-09-18 02:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spent so much of my life trying to get someone to love me more. Here is the quick and dirty way to get him to want you more.
First of all, you can't get someone to want you more. Don't try...like the other person said, it is your ego they are attracted too. If you are nice and pleasing, they think you aren't so great. They back up more. The more effort you put into it, the less he will want you. Believe me...I have been there for years.
So do yourself a favor and be less available. Start looking around. Think about what you want in life. Say...to yourself, gosh am I happy with a guy that isn't that into me? Do i want to chase after this guy forever and have him go "ho hum" ?????
Be unavailable. Tell him that you have other things you need to do. Although you don't want to be with anyone else....look around. See men that are totally into their girlfriends and imagine yourself there. Afterall, some girls get all the love.
You should be that girl. So say what you need. And if he says ho hum. Give him the ho hum. And move on. I promise you...he will want you much more. And if he doesn't...then maybe you need someone else.
And in a year...you will be the girl with the guy crawling all over you.
2006-09-18 02:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by kishoti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to hot topic and get some thing sexy and tell him if he could come over and help you move something then well you know!!
2006-09-18 02:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by LiL'rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the book kama sutra, that should give you some ideas, there is alway use of toys, and use you imagination.
2006-09-18 02:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
three way hook him up with some strange from time to time
2006-09-18 02:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by ken y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE,HONESTY AND SINCERETY
You will get everything if u have these three points
2006-09-18 02:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by shabbir s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a bigger ego - that'll help
2006-09-18 02:45:24 · answer #9 · answered by Lobster Dinosaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make him want you more!that's easy!make him jealous!
2006-09-18 04:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by anuk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋