how can i move from my parens house when i'm still in high school?

Question

ok i'm 18 going on 19 and am living in my parents house i have to becouse i don't have a job and i am looking very hard and i'm still in high school and they have been down my back and have recently broke me and my boyfriend up becouse i also don't have a driver's licence becouse i had 2 close friends killed in car accidents. I want to move out and live with someone else i can't take it anymore does anyone have any ideas of what i can do please help

Answer 1

Well.. let's see.. You say you have no job. Let's address this issue first.

If you have no income (JOB) how will you pay your expenses (Food, clothing, housing, medical, etc.)? Are you expecting someone else to pick up the bill? If you just want to 'move in' with someone else and not be expected to pay your portion of the expenses do you feel you can follow the rules and requirements of their household as this seems to be an issue now?

Let's talk about your DL now. If you have no ability to drive, how do you expect to get to school? to work should you be able to find a job? to the grocery store to purchase food?

Now let's talk about the things your taking for granted that your parents are currently providing. How will you replace the following: medical insurance, dental insurance, vision care (Glasses/Contacts), housing, transportation, furniture to sleep on, clothing to wear, tolietries (towels, feminine products, soap, shampoo, conditioner, etc.)

You say your parents broke up you and your boyfriend, it seems to me there is more behind this than just mean parents. I suspect the boyfriend is not a good influence and that your parents are probably wanting you to focus on becoming a sulf suffiecient adult. After all, you are 18 and still have no DL, job or a complete education. People your age should be 90% self suffiencient and you aren't even 10%.

So.. how can you move out? You can't. You don't have the abilities, life skills nor the financial capabilties to do so. I suggest you stop search for a way out of a place that you are loved and taken care of and realize that your parents are doing what's right for you.

Oh.. by the way. Your 18 which means your an adult. You can leave home anytime you want. Just pack a bag and walk out. Just remember, once you make that first step out of the door it is very possible that door will be locked once you run out of friends to mooch off of.

Hope this helps.

Answer 2

You need to spend more time on your studies, do you want to be in your twentys and still in high school? Get a job, don't give that "I'm looking" routine, there are lots of jobs out there. McDonalds may not be your cup of tea but it is a JOB! Grow up and do what it takes to what you need to do.

Answer 3

Try talking to them about how you feel, see if you can get them to compromise. I made the mistake of moving out when I was too young. It's too hard to do it all on your own, be thankful you don't have a million bills to pay, because when you get a job and you have school with tests, home work, and after school programs/activities to worry about believe me no one will work with you on any of it. I didn't even get to go to my high school graduation or prom because I had to work.

Answer 4

you can always became a stripper and get a pimp. or just go into the porn business.
just stay in school and take advantage of what your parents do for you. cause the real world and what it crack up to be. stay a kid and have fun, there are plenty time to grow up.

Answer 5

you are in no position to move out. the fact that you can't see that scares me..... your parents probably see this, and are probably trying to get your spoiled *** motivated to become responsible and are sick of you whining about everything. You're 18, going on 6... grow up.

Answer 6

Get a job as soon as possible and save up as much as you can and move out as soon as you can.

Answer 7

if your 17 u r a adult

Answer 8

I agree with wrkey..........
Life isn't fair, re-evaluate your life choices.

Answer 9

GET A JOB !!!