2006-09-18 01:20:59 · 27 answers · asked by tammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he doesn't feel bad about cheating in the first place, its doubtful you can actually change him to the point where he actually develops a conscience.
You can, and should, leave him, however. Forgiving a person for cheating on you is acceptable in some cases, but forgiving a person who doesn't feel bad about it? The person you'll need to forgive is yourself if you stay with him just to get hurt again!
2006-09-18 01:26:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, I see you're not ashamed to sink to his level! That's good! Signify your pain by resorting to revenge tactics! He makes you feel bad, you make him feel bad.
Anything will do - some sort of felony where you damage some of his property, tempt him to have you thrown in jail where, as a woman, you'll be 100% at risk of being victimized in unspeakable ways by guards and other inmates. That'll destroy him if he cares any for your safety.
You could also get it on with one of his friends or some strange guy from where he works and earn a reputation worse than his. BTW- This REALLY does wonders for changing the quality of a woman's life - Every guy who knows you will be interested ... once... unless they're scared about biological factors, like something you can't get rid of - or even "The Big H." Still, it wil be like a dare game. They'll say stuff like, "You pulled HER? Did you catch anything?"
The whole idea is to prove how much you really care about him by making him feel bad, right? If it were me, I'd say the worst thing you could do to me is drag me to a therapist... or cheat on me as a revenge tactic when you thought I did first... or key my car and make me struggle with calling the cops.
Sure do something to make him feel bad. Since you don't already feel bad enough to leave him, you feel #@$4 terrible so THEN you'll be able to say "enough is enough, it isn't ok for guys to cheat and get forgiven, I'm not going to ruin my own life by engaging in Social Wars."
(some people asked what a bloke is: They never had cowboys on the east coast, so they never developed the habit of calling people "dude." She must be from there. Prolly New York or something."
2006-09-18 08:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Lobster Dinosaur 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a "bloke" cheated on you, why would you care how he feels? Kick him to the curb and find someone else. Don't waste your time on someone like that.
2006-09-18 08:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by belleshappy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. That is the best way to take care of things. If you make him feel bad, he makes up with you, sooner or later he will do it again. Move on. Relationship over. Be the mature one and it will irk him that you are acting like you don't care and that you had moved on so quickly. Been there, done that.
2006-09-18 08:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care about how he feels about it? He should be concerned for your feelings and if he isn't he is not the boyfriend for you.
Review this relationship, there is a guy out there that won't cheat on you and love you with all his heart.
2006-09-18 08:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him a bloke.
2006-09-18 08:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your head up high and don't ever show him how bad it hurts - and of course dump him immediately. Never give in for the temptation to call him again!
2006-09-18 08:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Lex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him OFF for 52 years
2006-09-18 08:22:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's easy become like a super hot, sexy and irresistible babe; then you could rub it in his face! That's what I did. I lost wait, worked on my appearance and my self esteem. Then when he wanted me back I just said sorry to late!!! I like the why he stills turns his head even when his gf sits next to him to look at me!!! It will give you allot of satisfaction believe me!!!
2006-09-18 08:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some white show polish and write the words "You cheater!!!" on his car window . Tell all your girl friends not to
go out with him. Give him a bad reputation around town.
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2006-09-18 08:24:23 · answer #10 · answered by rasckal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋