Well he was married, with 2 adopted kids and our friendship grew into the relationship which caused himself and his wife to separate. we tried to stop it but feelings were to strong. I'm 18 and he is 38 is this age gap too big? I know it will work as we work in the same field and have been friends for a long time. I'm just worried bout what everyone will think. I dont want to be self conscious I just want to enjoy our relationship.
2006-09-18 00:45:20 · 19 answers · asked by Allison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should worry to much about the age difference you should be more focused on the family that you helped to break up. Why would you involve yourself with a married man?
2006-09-18 00:48:37 · answer #1 · answered by its just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a home wrecker, and you want to know what everyone thinks? Don't try to come off as all innocent now!
You do realize that once a man has given himself permission to have affairs, he will ALWAYS have affairs? How are you going to feel 10 years from now, when you're walking around hugely pregnant with his 3rd child, and you find out he's having an affair with his NEW 18 year old assistant? Don't think it won't happen, because he loves you. He probably once loved his ex-wife as well.
Don't set your life on this predictable path by marrying this moron. Treat yourself as worth more, and eventually the world will treat you the same way.
2006-09-18 00:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it happents to be too mutch,cause in the first place u just brake hes familly and the second i don't think u love him,u have just 18 years,at this age u can confuse love with wanting some one for sex.so no matter what people could say it's youre decision if u wanna go on or not
2006-09-18 01:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wont be too judgemental. But you have to consider many things. You are way too young. Its a matter of life and dont do anything to regret it later.
What if when you get into your 20s and he starts seeing another girl in teens?
Right now just give yourself some time and space and see where things go without letting too much of involvement?
2006-09-18 00:51:41 · answer #4 · answered by TulipGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My *personal experience*... 15-20 year age gap is too much. Nothing to do w/ what other people think, though.
2006-09-18 00:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by coffeepleasenosugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the gap is too wide. Twenty years is about two generations apart, so your overall interests may not be too compatible.
2006-09-18 00:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what others think. I still think you are too young to get that involved but hey you are old enough to make your own decisions now. Wish you all the best.
2006-09-18 00:48:06 · answer #7 · answered by cramcram62 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you couldn`t respect the boundaries, who's to stop you now, why the uncertainty all of a sudden? What goes around , comes around eventually....
2006-09-18 00:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by lew_lewisje 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the 1st place my dear it is not right to go into a relationship with a man who is married. i suggest u keep him as a friend.
2006-09-18 03:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age gap ain't too big but what about your 'gap'-is it too big?
2006-09-18 00:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋