would u break up with a bf if he had promised ages ago to makes enough money to move to me he lives in another country and the only reason he hasnt moved is because he hasnt made enough to get us a house and has debts to pay, i am relying on him solely for funds and our dream
2006-09-18 00:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by pete 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, id stick around.
2006-09-18 00:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by A K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you need him, why would you break up with him for that? when he gives you everything..remember "i am relying on him Solely for our funds and our dream" ok here's the thing and i hope to say this without sounding mean...you sound like a gold digger...if you rely solely on him, then does that mean you don't work and he gives you money? i sure hope not. oh and you rely on him for your dream...is that your dream or both of yours? or did you make it his. how do you know he wants everything you want have you actually asked him what he wanted? don't make it all about you.
i wasn't trying to be so mean, it;s just being real, that how i am, i am real with you when i think you need the real truth, and you do. good luck with every thing
2006-09-18 07:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm Dawn! Its time to join us here in the year 2006. Its great that he wants to buy you a house and you rely upon him as your sole provider. If you two are really serious about the whole thing, then maybe you could get a job and help to achieve that goal even quicker.
2006-09-18 07:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your need for security. But think, is this the only reason for being with your bf? How much are you contributing to this big move? Is he actually trying to do what he promised or just lazying about? Sometimes things don't go to plan. So you need to make a new plan, this, unfortunately, is how life works.
2006-09-18 07:36:46 · answer #4 · answered by snowfoxx71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you relying on him. If its your dream go out and catch it. That is only if it is real.. However you asking this question makes me wonder if it really is.
Only you know how you feel, and only you can interpret how he really feels. If you are serious then help pay the way. Two will get the money much faster than one.
2006-09-18 07:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by Parisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think that you might be relying just a tab bit too much on the promises of your boyfriend to begin with. I know that men like to promise the world to someone that they love, but you still have to be realistic about such promises as well.
2006-09-18 07:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kinnley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy should break up with you since all you seemed concerned about is his money...
You got two legs, why don't you go work for your funds and your dreams...
2006-09-18 07:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by velvet b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you relying on him solely??? Its your house aswell!! Maybe he wants to make sure his debts are clear before moving in with you.....
2006-09-18 07:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not to be mean but maybe it is time you wake up and start fulfilling your own destiny. If that is what you really want then you should help him and do it together.
2006-09-18 07:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by dgrainger77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave the poor guy to make all the money get off your butt and help him.
2006-09-18 07:39:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋