this person is my textmate..she keeps saying "i love you" . But me, i can't say it back because i'm not yet sure of what i feel...
2006-09-18 00:18:50 · 8 answers · asked by spawn_83 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm.... obviously.. ur the man in this equation....
when i saw the question... i was prepared to answer
the woman.... so much for assumptions..... anyways...
u should take a few things into consideration....
how much do u know about her.... is she seemingly
emotionally stable... does she as a rule make good
judgements.... is there anything else about her that
makes u wonder whether or not she has an agenda
or is trying to manipulate u..?
knowing as much as u can about someone u havent
met.... but spend time with via text or internet..... do u
think she feels like she is in love...?
u can be in love with the idea of love.... or u can have
valid spiritual merging.....
almost the same thing happened to me....
i am not attracted that way to very many people...
noone ever (almost) turns my head... but when it does
happen... its overwhelming and unmistakable......
we met on a poker site.... and the instant his icon
appeared on my screen..... i got a jolt down my spine...
and moaned in ....... pain...pleasure...?? .... something
and all i could do... was gasp the words..."oh noooo" to
myself..... i knew that second we were meant for each
other.... im not psychic... or flighty... but i know what i
know and i didnt ask for it anymore than he did.......
we both have been drawn to each other for no simple
reason ...... it just happened.... and tho i told him how i
felt.... he discounted it ... and i didnt push.... at all.... and
he didnt tell me he loved me until last month... and its
been ten months... we have gotten together five or six
times.... we live far apart... but we are a couple... and we
are tying up loose ends and will be moving in together
soon.....
so it is possible.... but .... hard to wrap ur head around....
isnt it....... i know....
dont hold back if u feel it...... dont lead her on if u dont....
and if ur not sure.... see if u can imagine not having her
around......
good luck to u......
u either have the best thing going.... or a real pressure
cooker on ur hands......
enjoy !!
P.S........ we arent needy ...greedy... b*tchy or jealous....
its just a good thing....so keep ur eyes and ears open for
red flags.... but try not to make any up ....
2006-09-18 00:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by putout_and_getout 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!! Yeah, I met a guy over the internet, and we fell in love. We corresponded, and talked on the phone everyday for six months before we met (he lives in the Middle East, I live in the USA). Then we met, and well...it just wasn't the same. I think we both had a big fantasy about what the other person would be like, and we were both way off base. Never, and I mean never think you are in love until you meet. It might feel that way, but trust me, you really need to meet first! This person sounds lonely, or extremely desperate (in other words you are the normal one). She loves the person that she wants you go be.
2006-09-18 00:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think love is a word that is tossed around so freely. People care about someone and mistake it for love. People want to be intimate with someone and mistake it for love. People confuse love and lust all the time. They think their in love it they are instantly attracted to some one. Love has no conditions. Love doesn't want to change people. I think your girl on the Internet is probably very interested in you and has mistaken that for love. I think spending real time one on one with each other is the only way people know if their falling in love. Guys tell you they love you to get sex. Girls tell you they love you to have more control. Meet your text mate. Spend some real time with her. Explorer who each of you are together. That is the only way your going to know if your truly compatible. If you can love someone even when their not lovable at the time but truly know them as a person then I think you can say I'm in love.
2006-09-18 00:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it happened to me..but it never ends how u expect it to...i recommend the real world
2006-09-18 00:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. She's in love with your words.
2006-09-18 00:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by C's Wifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did... now we're married... happily married that is :) it all depends on the person
2006-09-18 00:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by rache0116 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
classic....
2006-09-18 00:21:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
yes.......
2006-09-18 00:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋