my son's teachers say he's a bit aggressive, is this normal
@ this age ? I tell him to stick up for himself & not let others bully him, so I think that's why he's this way.
THANKS for any help .
2006-09-17 23:55:03 · 7 answers · asked by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
yes, we are Christians & we pray everynight , he DOES not hurt anyone
by touching , he tends to talk loud when
upset @ a classmate.
2006-09-18 00:00:17 · update #1
this info is from his teacher of last year, 2nd grade & the child study team .
2006-09-18 00:44:09 · update #2
From what I've seen it's not normal to be notably aggressive at that age. However, I don't know how much confidence to have in the teachers. They talk to each other and the reports might therefore be similar. Still, at that age he should tell you what he's doing honestly if he thinks you are reasonably open to hearing it without getting mad at him. Maybe teach him also not to be the bully toward supportive classmates that you wouldn't want anyone to be toward him.
2006-09-18 00:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don`t know a lot of info, if he went to changes lately or how long has he been in the school ,was that a problem last year too.
The school year just started he probably has new a teacher new classmates so mebay he is still unsure about the new environment and deals with it this way that he shout loud at other classmates etc.
I would be concerned and take it serious when he starts hurting others.
Try inviting some of his classmates to a play day(well big boyplayday) or
volunteer in his classroom then you see how he reacts why when and where and you can mebay figure out how to make him feel more comfy.
I give you right for telling him not to put up with stoff put don`t forget to tell him that there are good kids out there he just have to find them.
good luck
2006-09-18 00:42:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they mean violent or dominant? In my experience, second grade boys will become aggressive because they are starting to posture and vie for leadership rights. This is normal as long as he isn't becoming a bully. Actually, a little bulling is normal, too. Society is just becoming hypersensitive to any kind of dominant behavior. Try to remember what was it was like when you were a kid. Is he acting very different from that? Try to get some clarification from his teacher. Make sure he isn't being stifled at home or in the neighborhood. Talk to him about being nice. Don't worry too much unless it is obviously a problem.
2006-09-18 00:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of praying you could actually try something useful! It is natural at that age to be aggressive as it is their second testosterone high it's what makes them taller than the girls at that age, and hence more boisterous, try reminding him that if he hurts his friends they won't want to be friends anymore!
2006-09-18 00:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever prayed with him? pray and help him understand God loves him and all around and it is not good to hurt somebody.
2006-09-17 23:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by liveasahb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think it is normal for some children, not every kid will act that way
2006-09-18 00:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by Whats my name? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sure is listening to ya. That's good. Tell him to cool it.
2006-09-17 23:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋