me and a couple of the girls i know all have bf's and they think were all in it for sex, but the truth is we just want a companion who will love us and treat us right then when were ready we'll have sex. So why do guys always assume a girl is in the realtionship all for sex?
2006-09-17 23:48:53 · 12 answers · asked by badgirl 419 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes it has to do with the way a woman presents herself in the beginning; wearing a skirt so short that it may as well be a belt is a bad idea; behaving in a "come and get it boys", sort of way is bad too. BTW, proceed with caution, those guys really seem gung-ho to have sex; don't be blind to the fact, that is all they are interested in. Could be that after they, "hit it a few times", they'll be on the hunt for "something else" that will be just as vulnerable as you were. LOOK OUT GIRLS! I know a guy who has practically made a career out of doing the very same thing!
2006-09-18 02:21:50 · answer #1 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you giving those signals that suggest you are in it for sex?
I am a guy and I realistically know that women are not in relationships with men just for sex. I know I am not in a relationship with a woman just for sex. You gotta do more for me than being a hole to stab my stuff at. You can't stay in bed forever. You eventually have to get out.
I suspect that younger men think about just sex with a woman. Grown men want companionship. Sex is just a small part of it.
2006-09-18 07:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of any man who thinks a girl is in it for sex. If anything, it's the other way around. Most men are are in it for sex while alot of women are teases.
2006-09-18 06:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lets look at all the details here. For goodness sake look at your name "badgirl" Maybe you are putting yourself out there like that wether you realize it or not. Maybe you should just step back and re-examine the whole relationship and make a judgement call from there.
2006-09-18 07:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by dgrainger77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some dudes would think that...and not do well if d sex actually went down. but 2 ur question, it all boils down to communication, most guys don't reaaly look when a girl passes a message,if she wants to have sex...she won't tell him,she'll pass a message. if he wants to have sex, junior down below would be his mouth piece...see d difference.
2006-09-18 07:04:27 · answer #5 · answered by leksyd-online 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need more details.. not really understanding what you are saying...
Maybe guys are just worried that they need to fufill you sexually because if they don't then you will find someone else.. it's just kind of a "what if" situation..
2006-09-18 06:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by Gonzo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are a bunch of Pigs..well most of them anyway...
"Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake whole relationships."
2006-09-18 07:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i a guy thinks like that then he is himself in the relationship for sex only.
2006-09-18 07:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by journey2paradise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plain & simple -- most men r just a**holes..
so in case u find a really nice guy no matter how he looks, dnt ever let him go.. u might not find another one
2006-09-18 07:00:18 · answer #9 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didn't hurt u , WATS wrong with $ex its normal feeling unless he ask u only for that !
2006-09-18 06:59:48 · answer #10 · answered by wolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋