Theres a guy i got to know, met and things happened. He is very straight forward. Well, i seem to be falling in love with him, even though i know that wasnt part of the deal from the first day. We had an unspoken agreement, we werent going to get involved. Sometimes i feel he likes me in a special way, but other times i know im just another girl. Im going away from his life soon, should i casually mention im going away far from here, or should i just disapear and let him wonder for a while where iv gone. He will never see me again, and will never find out where i went off to. I know he isnt the kind to dwell on things.
2006-09-17 23:44:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes im going away because i have never felt so messed up before, the way he makes me feel scares me. Which is a new experience for me. No im not a teenager, im 24.
2006-09-17 23:48:06 · update #1
And i didnt mean im mentally insane over him, i just meant that i didnt want to get upset over him more then i am. Im not some psychopath woman who would commit suicide.
2006-09-18 00:03:27 · update #2
Do l tell him how i feel about him.
2006-09-20 00:09:16 · update #3
i was just in d same situation 4 2 months.. been hangin out w/this guy where we agreed a no strings attached set up..
but since im just human, i started 2 have feelings 4 him.. make d story short, i asked him & he said he doesnt wna get involved..
so i just moved on & didnt say a word.. let him wonder y...
its a waste of tym sayin gudbye coz 4 sure, he wudnt give a sh!t.. some men r just useless & worthless!
2006-09-17 23:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well running away from problems isn't the answer. You will want some kind of clousure with this guy. It sounds like you should tell this guy that it is over between the both of you. "Friends" like this, someone normally gets hurts. One will get the free milk and the other will fall head over heals and one day realize that nothing more is going to come out of it.
I had a simular experience once in my life. I was the one to be hurt. They guy I had got involved with did not want a relationship unless it was in the bedroom. Before I cut off my ties with him I told him how I felt. He was very straight forward also and still didn't want anything more out of me. I had no choice then to cut off all contact with him. I knew if I didn't he would continue to use me and I would continue to let him.
Do what you want to do but faceing problems head on makes us stronger people. Running only causes more problems.
Good luck
2006-09-18 06:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he was involved with someone else and this sort of happened, even though neither of youplanned for it to. You should definently tell him where you are going and let him know how you feel and then the ball is in his court. You should see a great movie called " How to lose your lover" It has some similar issues but not exactly.
2006-09-18 07:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by dgrainger77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Layla, what happened to you happened for a reason, and maybe you are a special person, that's why he treates you so. sometimes in life happens to us all to fall in love with the wrong one. it's bitter but it's sweet too. don't leave without saying bye-bye, remember that this might be someday the reason your life stopes being as beautifull as was once.
I want for you no regrets, as it happened for me. Even though it might prove to be hard to stand do it! Talk with him...no true man will pass over the fact that other human has this type of feelings for him.
2006-09-18 07:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are moving away take the bull by the horn and tell him how you feel too. you never know he may just feel the same way about you too. if you move away with out telling him you will always wonder if you could have been with him. the worst the could happen you get a red face but at lest you will know
2006-09-18 07:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by jambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi LAYLA, I hope your not planning on hurting yourself. For Pete Sake,No guy is worth hurting yourself and running away to no where.What you need to do,is stay away from this guy,and start going out with your friends,and have alot of fun,and enjoy yourself.Around the house find something you like to do,and keep yourself busy,and not let your mind wonder.Be good to yourself,and enjoy life,and your friends.
Clowmy
2006-09-18 06:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definately should not turn your back on love. You will regret it eventually even if he doesn't. You have absolutely nothing to loose in being honest with him and at the end of the day, If he doe's decide that he doen't feel the same way you are not going to have to see him all the time anyway
2006-09-18 06:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Oscar100 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well sweetie,I think you should casually mention where you will be just in case he wants to contact you.If you don't want to mention it to him face to face write your feelings for him and where you will be in a letter and give it to him.If he really does care for you he will contact you,if it was just a fling and he doesn't get in touch with you,then you will know his true feelings and you can move on with your life.Hope I've helped some
2006-09-18 06:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by baby g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
..don't take this the wrong way but...if he isn't the kind to dwel on things,...and you guys didn't get involved in the first place...and you say you are just another girl..than I really don't think he will miss you...I'm not trying to be a *****...I am just being honest... Also...do you really want him to know where you are going..? If you do...than tell him...
2006-09-18 06:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are leaving and you have enjoyed you time together... Don't just leave and not saying anything.. That would be rude... Besides he might want to have a nice going away evening together.... You said you liked being with him.. Wouldn't it be good one more time....
2006-09-18 06:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by levita45 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋