Dating and working on relationship are tough for 40+ men! How do shorten the drama? Online? Grocery stores? Bar scene? Speed dating?
2006-09-17 23:30:06 · 16 answers · asked by slampuppets 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am over 40 and my 19 year old girlfriend is using me for sex. Should I complain or just let it continue?
2006-09-17 23:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi Slam, What i look for in an older man is,He has to enjoy life and be trustful,honest,likes to laugh alot,likes animals,is trueful,and likes to go and enjoy hisself,and his date to.And always be a gentleman at all times.This is hardly done anymore,and ladies like to be treated like ladies.To meet a nice girl,and not for just a 1 nite stand,you can meet alot of women while you are shopping.Like Wal-Mart,Target or even big k or a grocery store.I have meant alot of nice people while i shop.But don't just go up to a woman,and scare her to death.You could use the line,and say,aren't you so and so!! You sure look like her,Sorry.And then tell her your new in town,and what is a good place to eat.After she tells you,ask her out to dinner with you.It can't heard.
Clowmy
2006-09-17 23:46:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are trying to hard. Love your life .....Not everyone is destined for that permanent relationship. Dating over 40 is possible....but you'll find with the over 40+ group...drama, tons of baggage....and sometimes it is better to have the companionship of a nice dog than to open the door to a BEOTCH!
2006-09-17 23:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because young boys are so stupid. They always talk about soccer and big cars and huge guns, but they are mostly unable to flirt, to have fun. No sex, not even a "quicky". An "old" man knows, "what's cooking". he is charming. He never TALKS about
sex. But in a warm and romantic moment it just happens.
2006-09-17 23:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
commitment and a man to settle down my man is over 40 and im 29 he gots his priorities straight and we both like the same things
2006-09-17 23:33:56 · answer #5 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think man looks for younger girls,i mean man who are 40 yr old.
its just a routine!!
as far as me,i married my student,who was younger than me!!
and now(39 yr old) as am divorced,young guys approah me for date!!
2006-09-17 23:36:42 · answer #6 · answered by terri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
experience,I guess.40 it's not age for man.
2006-09-17 23:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Moe M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 43. I am using him for sex. Do you think he can tell?
2006-09-18 12:41:23 · answer #8 · answered by immortalnorsegoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing she should be looking for at any age.......respect, communication, openess, high moral and values....things like that.
2006-09-17 23:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha, I have you beat on this one. I am a 53 y/o single woman!!!!!!!
2006-09-17 23:32:55 · answer #10 · answered by shirley e 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋