Women often ask why men cheat and then they ask questions about things that they are not willing to do in the bedroom. If monogamy is still the ideal doesn't that kind of mean that your partner is dependant on you for sexual fulfillment. I mean there is a difference between doing something that you could do without but causes no great harm and being asked to do porn. Where is the line of obligation crossed?
2006-09-17 23:28:27 · 16 answers · asked by No More 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being open to new things in the bedroom keeps your relationship alive and reciting...Boredom is one of the biggest reason men or women stray... Besides not getting any at all.... I am not saying you have to try everything.. But be willing to have an open mind.. Would you want to wear the same clothes every day.. The same pair of shoes... Same goes with sex... It gets boring doing it the same way day in and day out...Spice things up...Keep your man or woman looking forward to being with you and only you....
2006-09-17 23:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by levita45 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, this is a very adult discussion but I'll give out my point of view nevertheless. I think it really depends on the guy. If a woman happens to have married a pervert, then obviously she can never satisfy her partner whatever she does. Sex is just a part of the whole relationship, I reckon love is the reason why you get into a relationship. If a guy cheats on his partner because he can't be sexually satisfied, 2 things: either he's psychiatric case or he's the shallow, worthless type of guy who deserves no one but prostitutes. He doesn't deserve to be with someone special, not even an average woman, because he is incapable of rationalizing and feeling.
I'd like to share a true story. Some time about 10 year ago, a newly wed couple was faced with tragedy. The woman, after giving birth to their first child, had a stroke as a complication of parturition. For months she was in coma, and when she recovered, she's totally paralyzed. Rehabilitation only gave little improvement to her, the most was being able to comprehend and respond. Her face was twisted like that of a Bell's Palsey patient, she looked so different from her old self. Yet her husband decided to be strong and stay with her, take care of her, and love her for the rest of their lives. They were in every maagazines around 7 years ago for their amazing love story. She is one lucky woman to have found a faithful, dedicated husband. So you see, it depends on the perspectives and moral values of the guy. It's not all about the bedroom.
2006-09-18 07:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by gameplan_xtreme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not the total reason why men (and women) cheat, sweetie. You have to look at the big picture of the cheating game. A person's needs are not usually met throughout every aspect of the marriage. And, the woman's role is the same as the men's role in the bedroom.....whatever is acceptable and mutually fulfilling as a couple.
2006-09-18 06:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never do anything that makes you feel less than a woman. Like men women have set morality sexually for themselves and if it makes you feel bad to do it then don't! Men like anything but sometimes they too might think they want that then they don't.Sexual gratification is a 2 way street. Why should you do something that makes you feel bad to KEEP him happy. That line is your self respect. If you can look yourself in the mirror and feel good about what you did then do it.........vise versa
2006-09-18 06:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by fdebbie2002 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the key to good bedroom activities is being open to discussion and willing to try anything
2006-09-18 06:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by johnny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with levita45. But one should never do something that you feel uncomfortable with. We have a conscience for a reason.
2006-09-18 06:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to do it and they are insistent; the line has been crossed. They don't respect you or your feelings.
2006-09-18 06:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well' For once I agree with Mystery Guest.
2006-09-18 06:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
A woman's role is is to suck the cock, take off her clothes and play patiently with a man's penis till he is excited and then spread her legs for him to mount. After he finishes ******* her she should wipe his penis clean with her tongue
2006-09-18 06:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
a woman's role in the bedroom is to please her mate as she may feel fits his needs and her's at the sametime..
2006-09-18 06:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋