how do u dump a longtime boyfriend without hurting yourself?

Question

when u thought he was your friend he used you nd u didnt notice that untill lately he neva presented you to da whole world BUT STILL those little moments still give u hope that ''he loves u in his own way''

Answer 1

What is more to the point is 'How can you dump him without hurting HIM', surely. It sounds as though you are already hurt.

Answer 2

Its obvious here that you don't have much respect for yourself...You are going to hurt, in fact,I think you're hurting already!
I think you will start feeling a lot better about yourself a lot faster once you do end it with him!
Remember, the person you are with, and how that person treats you, reflects a lot on the way you respect and love yourself.
If you are willing to love someone with all your heart and soul, don't you deserve the same?
There are many men out there that would treat you like you really would want to be treated...don't settle for less.
Whenever you feel horrible about this decision...just remind yourself that you are worth more, you are doing this to realize that you deserve loads of love, and a guy that is going to be by you through thick and thin because he is so proud to have someone like you!

Answer 3

Wake up and smell the coffee!
(not sure about that idiom, well here's another one...)

SNAP OUT OF IT! When you feel that he's doing something disagreeable to you, don't try to fool yourself that he still loves you. YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT THE FACT that things have changed or he doesnt really love you the way he's SUPPOSED TO, so let him go.

To answer how you're going to do it in the least painful way, well I dunno, the reality is that IT REALLY HURTS, but FOR A WHILE, as opposed to a lifetime misery and pain. You'll eventually get over it. Is this the first time you're gonna dump a guy? If not, then you know what I mean, we always get to recover and find somebody else sooner or later. DON'T SETTLE FOR LESS.

Oh, and wish me luck, because I think I'm going to see my "special friend" again this week and boy, I dunno where to gather courage to tell him how I feel about him but I would definitely do it.

Answer 4

Its not easy to do this. I've been there myself and I know how it feels. First thing to do is stop calling him. I know its not easy but you have to try. Delete his number from your phone and replace it with your best friends number. Secondly, keep yourself busy with things you love. Thirdly go out with your girlfriends and have fun. Tell yourself you deserve a better person that you would love and would love you in return. Lastly, always look good and not like one that was just dumped and remove all hopes that he would come back. He's not worth it, if he does he is likely to hurt you again.All the best gurl!!

Answer 5

you ought to purpose to artwork it out for the sake of your toddlers, yet you ought to kick him out and tell him to no longer come again until eventually ultimately he turns into sparkling. reason you have 2 youngsters. If he extremely loves you he might supply up. in simple terms point out which you extremely want to interrupt up because of this, that could desire to be a awaken call.

Answer 6

It seens that this guy did hurt you already. Give yourself another chance.

Answer 7

Girl, unless you get a better education, you better stick with him and hope he makes a good living so he can support you. With your education level you won't make it far in life.

Answer 8

better go with another boyfriend (x). give x a red rose, lip-lip kiss and have sex with x whenever your longtime boyfriend is watching.

Answer 9

You have to simply find another boyfriend and then u break up with ur ex!He may get hurt but you....no...

Answer 10

Get another guy