I have a friend who, I realised, liked me more than as a friend. Since I have no such feeilngs, indirectly, I made it known to her that I am not interested romantically. We don't talk as much now but are on very good terms otherwise.
However, whenever I see her talking to another male, I get very mad, almost jealous and somehow I feel like not letting his talk to anybody else. I dont understand why... It's not that I'm in love with her or anything...... Should I drift away for a while or something? Kindly help...
2006-09-17 23:14:58 · 24 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are making me laugh. I'm not laughing at you though. I'm laughing because after eight years of being with my boyfriend I still get jealous if I see him talking to another girl. Similarly he gets jealous when I talk to other guys. It's not that we don't trust each other. We don't flirt with other people and I trust that boy with my life. We usually talk about it in a joking manner. It sounds to me like you have more than friendship feelings towards this girl. Think about it, you wouldn't feel that way if she was a guy. Let your relationship progress naturally. Another way to know if you are falling in love...how would you feel if you saw her kissing another guy? Or what if she said that she's in love with someone else? You would want to rip the other guy's head off? If yes, then you're in love (or falling in love). I'm laughing again. I'm laughing because you asked if you should drift away for a while. Love is not a bad thing that you should run away from. You said that she likes you so you don't have anything to worry about. Guys are so funny. I'm sorry pal. It's just that I don't drink or smoke. I usually get my high from laughing. Good question though.
2006-09-19 09:30:56 · answer #1 · answered by Hema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 03:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be something there in your heart that you have for her. Maybe you do not know how to express it, and when you see another talking to her you could believe they are expressing the feelings that you may be having difficulty showing. Thats the way I take it. What I would do is find out what feelings I have and deal with it. Run or stay, your feeling are your feelings and they will always show up until you deal with them.
2006-09-17 23:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by james.ampmerch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sunny I've heard that you can not be just friends. No such thing as just friends between men and women. Don't know just how much stock you can put in that so maybe you better rethink your true feelings.
2006-09-17 23:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by short stack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have this feelings when you see her it means you are in love with her to some extent. Since she likes you also I see no reason why you cant date her. I'll advise you sit down analyse the situation and make a wise decision. All the best !
2006-09-17 23:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Gentlehero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there!!
At first, you have to right to feel that way.. On the other hand, the reason why you are feeling that way is because you are afraid to lose her.. Just tell her what you really feel so that you will need not to worry about that.. Learn to take the risk so that you will never regret at the end..
Goodluck.. Take care..
You can do it man..
2006-09-17 23:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u get jealous bcoz u realised that d girl was loving u & now u had refused her indirectly. u think if she speaks with any other male she will fall in love with another one.from deep of ur heart u dont want this,cuz after refusing her u had fall in love with her.
its just suddenly happened.and even u dont know it.
2006-09-18 00:48:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, u are jealous because u have feelings for him/her, without your realising it. Jealousy is inherent in everybody, all humans, that is how god has created humans. It is a matter of how that feeling is controlled and how trusting you feel about him/her. Time will change your feelings depending on how he/she potrays herself to you.. Good luck.
2006-09-17 23:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kimosabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is nothing but Ur love tell u to love that girl don't leave that girl and better way propose to her tell her u can't live without her OK best of luck don't be late if u r late then u fail in Ur life
2006-09-17 23:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by sweetu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are truely in love but you are possesive. It will keep up tense as long as you don't get and will have this attitude even if you get married. So decide for your self
2006-09-17 23:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by lkslalit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋