One the person you are with is a tota B***H and always puts you down in front of other people, who likes to mess up your life, want everything her way and when you touch her looks at you as if you are a lump of S**t. But I can't leave her because I have six wonderful children by her and I don't want them to end up being twisted like her so if I find someone to love would it be bad to love them.
2006-09-17 23:11:30 · 6 answers · asked by newstarwarslover68 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You need to sit down with her and ask her what is wrong. there can be Lot's of reasons why she does not want you to touch her have you tried talking to her?????. cheating on her is not a good idea how would you feel if she done that ????? staying with some one cause you have children is no good thing either kids can tell when there is some thing up with there parents. and if you guy's row this effects them big time so please please sit down with her and talk this though and hopefully you can save your marriage. your marriage is worth saving for yourself and wife not just the kids. you need to be happy with your lot cause this is the real thing no second chances only one life so make it a happy one for you and her plus the kids good luck
2006-09-17 23:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by jambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on....you can't cheat on her because you were stupid and married or had kids with her. Suck it up and learn that a relationship is a two way street. If she is abusive to you or the kids, leave her and take the kids; if she is just treating you like crap then maybe you should talk to her and see what you can do to make her feel better about the relationship. Straying makes you an @sshole and only makes things worse. Get some help for your relationship and consider the kids in whatever you do. You both are setting an example for the kids and you don't want them asking the same question you are asking. And yes a love affair is bad, there is no reason to betray your g/f or wife and family for your own pleasure. Sex is sex and love is love.
2006-09-17 23:23:27 · answer #2 · answered by chrissy757 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find someone to love as you say....how will your children end up?....yes.also twisted like you.
whatever the problem you have with your wife,sit down and work it out before it is too late for you and your family.The same awful things you perceive about your wife are the same things she perceives about you....but you don't see her calling you names in the Internet.
Am not siding with anyone just that whatever your problems are sooner or later your beautiful children will be affected whether you like it or not.
whether an affair or a love affair this won't solve your problems it will only make them worse.
so whether your wife is a b***h or whatever you want to call her,she has given you those wonderful kids....that's the beauty of what you once shared with her but it's up to you to revive it or let it all go down the drain.....
2006-09-18 00:28:16 · answer #3 · answered by kart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is always bad. Everyone is effected, the spouse, kids and the person you are cheating with. There will also be a reason not to leave. Are you planning to keep the mistress on the side until the "kids" grow up? Do you expect her to wait for you until the time is right? It's selfish. You could always get a divorce, pay child support and then go to your mistress. Or you could be a man and go to counseling and try to work on your marriage.
2006-09-17 23:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by lady01love 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Figure out what the problem is, work on things with your wife, give her a year to turn around. If that doesn't work then get a divorce, assume the responsibility of the children & move on.
2006-09-17 23:26:12 · answer #5 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One wonders what makes you so lenient in front of this who..re. Just leave her to the gutter where she belongs no matter how much it costs you and find your new life. The children will come to you, eventually.
2006-09-17 23:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋