Dont know what to do...?

Question

What should I do if my mum constantly hits me, not just slapping, but actual beating - 15

I dont have any family to talk to and I am scared to talk to a support group because I dont know them...

Answer 1

at 15 you do have some control of what is happening to you,,because you are probably used to getting hit your confidence to stand up to her may be at an all time low but something must be done here,,can you stay with another relative? a friends home? you could call the police after letting it be known this is the last time hands are laid on you but that to would take will power you may not yet have,,the trouble is that to contact an organization and tell on your mum may make things worse so i would have to suggest telling someone you trust and letting them come with you to confront your mum,,she needs to know she cannot do this to you as the after effects will be so damaging to your mental growth,,you have to regain control so you can start to get your confidence back in time for you becoming an adult,,let someone know even if it is just a teacher,,,they do not have to say you told them,,they can contact the authorities on your behalf but you have to be strong and admit when asked that all of it is true,,only then will your mother see there will be consequences to her actions.decide in your head ,enough is enough and take that first step,be brave and just do it,,you wont be at home forever and if you decide she will no longer hit you,she will not hit you.good luck

Answer 2

Just because she is your mother doesn't give her the right at all, punch her straight back, she's not expecting it, and you have to let her know you are not going to stand for it.
Call the police, not only is this abuse it is gbh/abh and you can have her arrested for it.
Tell a teacher at school, they will help straight away.
Tell a friends mum, they will help you.
Please just tell someone, if I was next door I would come help you, just don't put up with it.
Hope you get the help you need, good luck.

Answer 3

I would suggest that you talk to other family members and get their ideas on this situation, or if you have no one else to talk to and you want this to stop you can always go to the police.

This is not the best way to do this but I think that you would be better off in a different house and away from your mother.

Good Luck to you

I hope this helps you a little

Answer 4

hi, i am sorry to hear that i think you should seriously talk to someone, maby a teacher, a close aunt or uncle your local gp or you could even try and phone a help line, but dont try go through this on your own speak to somebody that can help you deal and cope with this. you are not in the wrong you are only a child so dont think it is your fault why she does this. get help.

Answer 5

Darling i feel for you is there no one who you can turn to such as family if not then you need to get in contact with a local child abuse authority or a child line and maby they will be able to help good luck with what ever you decide to do xx

Answer 6

hit the ***** back!!!!!!!!! no really i think you should talk to your school counselor..or priest..someone with high authority even cops they will probably assign you to go to family counseling if all else fails write Dr. Phil hes awesome and will **** your mom up..lol good luck girl no one deserves to be in your situation..I'd recommend you stay at a relatives house or even a friends house till after the counseling who knows how your mom will react to you actually getting help for her.

Answer 7

Speak to another family you can trust - if there is nobody like that available, confide in a teacher or counsellor at your school.