after being with my girlfriend she said after 12 mths i want sex to much,so we have sex every night apart from fridays a saturdays.does this seem right she said whoever she talks to and her past that she only had sex 3 times a week.i love her and fancy her so i want to have lots of sex,i would do it 3 times a day every day if she would let me.
im 31 shes 35
she says she loves me wants us to settle down,whats te average i would like lot of women to answer this to.
does she love or fancy me any less?
2006-09-17 22:52:38 · 40 answers · asked by jonas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's what I've read:
- Males and females are equally likely to complain about their partner wanting sex too often (or too seldom).
- The "average" couple has sex 2-3 times per week.
Take that for what it's worth.
2006-09-17 23:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not the case of she fancies you less the poor girl is probably worn out ... especially if she has been at work all day .... sex is fine but making love is more special ... have romantic times together like massaging her, cooking her a nice meal, go for a long walk together...... she is right when she says she wants to settle down at the on set of any relationship you have sex whenever you can but once you learn and grow with one another you discover that sex is just part of the wonderful relationship ... no such thing as an average.
2006-09-17 22:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by dee9166 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
With guys its all about the physical that says love. With women you gotta have the emotion THEN the physical. Maybe you're not fulfilling that end of the deal. Sure, women get off to getting off just like guys but if you're going to take the relationship to the next level you gotta communicate fella. Doesn 't sound like you want a **** buddy so back off physically. Let her set the pace. If she's into you you'll know it soon enough. And by the way...are you going to love her if she can't give you sex anymore? if god forbid something were to happen to her? What if you can't perform anymore? Is she going to love you? There's more to love than sex but only experience is going to teach you that, I guess.
2006-09-17 23:08:21 · answer #3 · answered by anon_y_muse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its nice sometimes without the sex just cuddling etc, she probably feels comfirtable with you now and sometimes just wants to chill out in front of the tv. Her sex drive might not be as high as yours so she might be getting tired. My ex partner had a higher sex drive then me, and we used to argue about it. I think it would be best you talked about it. It wont be beacuse she loves you less or fancies you less, she probably wants to talk or do something diffrent to sex every night!
Goodluck
2006-09-18 00:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my Bf ever ask this Question I would Never HAve Sex with him again!
But yea its Ok I have sex Every day sometimes 4 times a day its really What I feel Like doing! I think I keep My Bf happy what do u think LOL
2006-09-17 22:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
spend 2 days a week going at it like rabbits and chill out the rest of the week!!
everyones diff though i read an article in the paper saying 2/3 times a week was average
2006-09-17 22:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by Barson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when me and my fiancee got together 9 years ago we were doing it every chance we got now not so much but its good when we do
you shud really talk to her about how she feels just because you have sex more than other couples you know dont mean theres any problem if anything your lucky you get chance wait till you have kids there the best sex stopper in history lol
2006-09-18 03:05:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just has a lower sex drive but sounds like ur in too much of a routine you need to change things make em more interesting, try summat new ermmm do things in places you can be caught my someone thats super fun or try sumat a bit kinky, whatever you fancy, see if she goes for it
an hey if she dont just tek it dont know bout u but i get what i want no matter what...ask my g/f...
2006-09-17 22:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by purple_ronnie_always 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally Im in the same boat I can wish I could have it more than 1x a day but sometimes thats what you have to settle with if you love her
2006-09-18 04:03:30 · answer #9 · answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Mom2two Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is loosing interest in sex because of her age. Tell her that you understand her situation and you're willing to compromise. Therefore you'll only have sex on days that start with "T". Meaning that you'll only have sex on Tuesdays, Thurdays and most importantly Today!
2006-09-17 23:01:37 · answer #10 · answered by coolray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋