Need to find a lady for marriage not for flings! I look young for my age but the younger ladies get put off once they know my age?! Or maybe my imagination - so need to know how to be more attractive to them. I am 34, so old but feel young.
2006-09-17 22:34:23 · 26 answers · asked by Sherriff J. Brown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women my age look so old! Need someone who looks age compatible as I do look too young. People often estimate me 7-10 years younger.
2006-09-18 01:14:43 · update #1
Be happy and love yourself and get busy with life and new challenges- people will just want to be with you as you are loving life! There is nothing more attractive than a man who knows himself and is confident!!!!!!
2006-09-17 22:47:59 · answer #1 · answered by Nicky T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One does not become cool, one is.
And if the 'younger' ladies get put off with your age, why not go for your own age? Far more to talk about, know what they are doing (if you're lucky!), and know where they want to get to in life.
You cannot make yourself become more attractive in that sense. Unless you come off desperate, then all women will run!
YOU ARE NOT OLD!! YOU ARE AT THE PEAK OF LIFE, ENJOY!
2006-09-17 23:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by Marlene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may well get answers saying well then act your age! although there are ways around it, and not everybody is a as mature as the next.
You should feel lucky you look younger than you are, it's when you have children and take on extra stresses that come with it that ages you!!
Enjoy, just go out and meet people Im sure there is somebody there that is just well suited.. You gotta find em
2006-09-17 22:37:31 · answer #3 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple (unless this is wrong lol). Women like charisma and confidence. A lot of younger women like older men so that shouldn't be a problem and you're not old anyway. Just be yourself and be confident. Don't be desperate or clingy. Don;t rush things. Take it easy, relax and have fun. Women like a man that can make them smile too. Just don't try to be something you're not - be confident in yourself and others will be charmed by you! Enjoy the queue of women coming your way!
2006-09-17 22:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost identify the kind of guy you would like to imitate inorder to get a hot young chic have interest in you.
For real i think it all comes down to you. Dress well, groom well have a great personality and point of you about yourself age aint nothing all you need to do is just be yourself. I bet you are a shy guy, this will not get you far.Learn to sell yourself.
2006-09-17 22:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being "cool", hmmm. I think you're just looking to be accepted and loved, not cool. Why so much younger? A trophy perhaps? You still have some things to work out dude. You're not ready for marriage.
2006-09-17 22:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by anon_y_muse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to places where you are likely to meet single females your age who might be looking for a serious relationship (volunteer, take a class, things like that).
2006-09-17 22:36:52 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try growing come facial hair, that can attract the older lady and if it is styled well you will look like a cool dude
2006-09-17 22:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by welshwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like pretty, cool is as cool does. Being concerned about what anyone else thinks of you when you are being yourself is definitely not cool. A cool dude (as you put it) never trys to be cool. He is confident in who he is.
2006-09-17 22:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Love is the principle thing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stope refering to yourself as 'one' for a start!
There are girls out there who don't care about your age and anyone who is that shallow doesn't deserve your attention!
Not really advice on how to be a dude, sorry, but maybe being yourself a bit longer is worth a try :)
2006-09-17 22:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by Andromeda Newton™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋