2006-09-17 21:54:57 · 9 answers · asked by tracy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe so, but perhaps a lot of time people get hurt and no longer believe in it, without realising they missed the whole pt...
Well we all do go through feelings of attraction, its normal, and alot of times we get hurt in one of the following reasons
1. rejection
2. betrayal
3. non-commital partners
And as a result, we start wondering if our partner's original commitment of "love" is really true or even just an emotional high, a false promise.
But, then we've missed the point, love is not a feeling, its not an emotion, not even a relationship. Love is a commitment, a choice.
And a lot of time, when people are in the early stage of the relationship the "love" exist, because truly their emotional highs make commitment easy... but as the saying goes when the daylights replace the moonlight, and the homemade candlelight dinner becomes dishes. Are we STILL willing to make that commitment?
For me, its not easy even in my relationship to constantly to be in love, in light of both my partner's and mine time... we're both in the banking sector, with our constant flying about. But I am thankful for a woman who wakes up every morning, making a choice to love me, even when I do not have time for her. And making that choice is not merely lips service, but a conscious effort.
Some may deem the following actions romantic, but romantic itself is a matter of opinion, I have never been a romantic chap, not a flowers, nor good with my hands. But just last week, when she was stressed at work over deal, I knew she missed her days in Australia, dated her out for lunch, and brought her to an Aussie eatery by the waterfront. That made her day, and is my daily commitment to her. Not to do romantic actions that merely remain memories, but little actions that is reflective of my commitment to her.
This was a commitment I made to myself when we started off, "...that I will grow in love daily, one little action, one little word of affirmation, one conscious thought for her well being, one gentle gesture at a time..." because a relationship is like the great wall of China, built one brick at a time... a relationship is built one brick of love at a time...
2006-09-17 22:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by hotchocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me...there is TRUE LOVE. For examples, my sister and her husband were lovers for more than 10 years. They first met at school when my sister was 14 and her husband was 16. They craved in their heart that they were made for each other and now... after years of having TRUE LOVE, they were finally married 4 years ago and have a lovely son...and a very loving marriage...
2006-09-18 05:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by xanseviera 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah and if you do not feel it it will not come later, so if you are not attracted to him now it is only going to get worse. Get out and cut your losses. If you do not have feelings for him they are not going to come with time. If he seems like a good catch but you do not have feelings for him he is the wrong man. Wait until you have feelings for the guy. It is going to work much better. You need to find a good man that you have feelings for and that will work much better.
I have been in love 2x in my live I am lucky to say and I have been with someone for pratical reasons. The practial reasons do not work. It only makes a person unhappy and those practial reasons turn out to not be so practical after all when you find out there is a monster inside that man.
Trust your instincts if you do not love the guy it is not going to work. Know someone well before you marry him. There are wolves in sheeps clothing. They look good on paper and look good for a while, but they are very unkind. They want you to marry them fast. I answered your other question. If you are affraid to be married trust your instinct.
2006-09-18 05:18:12 · answer #3 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes True Love sure exist. But havent experienced myself. Though heard from many it does. And ya I do believe in love.
2006-09-18 05:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ankita G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is true love around . The only question is whether it will last.
2006-09-18 05:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by david l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is lust that people mistake for true love.After that they argue and try to figure out where they went wrong.all along it's just that they finally had enough of each other.Next step is breaking up and then divorce.people are better off alone.
2006-09-18 05:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by fav0r1tegurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya ur gona just have to be blind to find true love
2006-09-18 05:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by titties 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES!
true love only exists in porn.
2006-09-18 04:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
sure why not
2006-09-18 04:57:42 · answer #9 · answered by Bob D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋