People without disabilities struggle to date, but what about someone disabled, what do they have to offer? Especially if they love at home with their parents, and are supported by the goverment financial. What can they go on, to get the courage to even approach another woman?
2006-09-17 21:48:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should never sell yourself that short. Some things in life we can control and some we can not. All that you can do is work to improve the areas of your life that you can change. Put yourself out there and give someone a chance to like you. Sure you have to open yourself up to some rejection but if you close yourself off you don't give yourself a chance. You need to put yourself in a position to allow the most potential people to come to know you. Most cities have disabled singles groups, have organizations that you could volunteer time or energies to. Get out and be seen and give someone else a chance to like you, then see what happens. Living with parents, lower income due to governmental support, those are just two things about you, they do not define you! Utilize para-transit services in your community to raise your level of independence. Look on-line for others to chat with to build and grow relationships. My brother used to walk up to women in bars and whisper crude pick-up lines into their ears, he used to tell me that 9 times out of 10 he would get his face slapped, but then he told me that the 10th time was always worth it! So for you it might not be as easy as 1 in 10. So what, just always push for every day of opportunity that comes your way!
2006-09-17 22:03:13 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Plenty. Most women don't like sex, 80% of women surveyed in American said they prefer to be hugged. So if this is a problem, lots of disabled males have lots of love.
Whichever girl will accept you will get someone with courage, endurance, understanding of what's important in life, and great sincerity. Which disabled male has the opportunity to be a lecher and a Romeo and a hound, or a hustler and so on. The girl will be lucky.
I visit this quadraplegic who was visited often by a volunteer who ended up as his girlfriend and then his wife. Women feel most fulfilled to be meaningful to someone else in a relationship. "He needs me," is enough for such women to stick to a man.
I don't think it is pity. Because when the ordinary able-bodied husbands get disabled (think of Christopher Reeves) their wives still love them no matter what, maybe more than ever.
This is what true love is, commitment. Not the kind of marriage where people think, "I'm going to get out of this relationship all I can get. And when I don't get it, I want out. Divorce is so easy nowadays, thank goodness!" It's an all-for-me world out there.
Some woman who would marry a disabled man would have the attitude, "All-for-you!" and this is absolutely lovely. And the man must pray that someday such a woman will come into his life.
2006-09-17 22:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Minerva 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 03:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One has nothing to do with another. Companionship, love, friends, someone to talk things over with, compassion just to name a few. Maybe more than most men even offer. Sometimes its not about the money.
2006-09-17 21:55:44 · answer #4 · answered by short stack 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love, compassion, companionship, hope, friendship, fun, laughter, caring, support, security, advise, trust, honor, respect and the chance to have a life with another person.
2006-09-17 21:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by jodie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They can sdvertise in local papers their predictment and ask the reader to help if they are willing.
They can also meet persons of lesser disability.
2006-09-17 21:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by SKG R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a group of people like you.
It will be easier to approach somebody like yourself.
2006-09-17 21:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Dennis Fargo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love ,happiness.someone to cherish rest of their life together maybe a possibility. there is somebody out there for everyone
2006-09-17 21:50:51 · answer #8 · answered by yoursuperman000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date em, and then you can park closer to the door or cut in lines... well, maybe not cut, but you don't have to walk so far... but I'm sure they'd give you plenty of devoted love.
2006-09-17 21:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by mopar-man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They can offer just as much as anyone else, you offer yourself and your love to someone, if they don't appreciate that then its their loss.
2006-09-17 21:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by Chappers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋