I find it ridiculous that women go out for lunches with male coworkers on a date look like but becvause it is at 12 during work time it is not considered a date while nothing of their conversation is really about work it is about their personal lives. If you were the husband of woman or the wife of a man involved in these kind of lunches what would you say ? Remember that people are good at saying what the heart wants is what the heart wants and one thing led to another and these kind of hollywood stupid lines
2006-09-17 21:47:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it is a group thing i think it's okay but if not it is kind of questionable.
2006-09-17 23:41:41 · answer #1 · answered by ~Princess*Bonkers~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and I have no restrictions on what my wife does during her lunch. Its up to her. Nor do I ask her what she does during lunch. I believe in both spouses being free to make their own decisions how they want to conduct themselves. I they are dedicated to their vows they will act accordingly. If they are not it will come to light in many ways. If I have to restrict her to keep her then she is not worth having. If there is some activity going on that I object to I will discuss it and let her know my feelings. If we truly care for each other we should be able to have a meeting of the minds. If not I have the right to ensure my happiness and not let myself be overwhelmed with sadness because of another. She has that same right. Here is a rule that all couples should live by. "Don't do something to someone else that you wouldn't want done to you".
2006-09-17 22:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with lunches with co workers, why should the conversation only be about work? A lot of my co-workers are also my friends so we wouldn't be talking only about work on our lunch hour. Frankly with your attitude you don't sound mature enough to even have a job let alone anything else.
2006-09-17 21:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It IS possible for men and women to be friends, I have heaps of purely platonic guy friends... but I could definitely understand why it might make you feel uncomfotable.
I guess it comes down to trust. If you trust your partner you need to be ok with them having friends of both sexes, or youll be in for a pretty miserable life of jealousy.
If your partner was having an affair they would keep it secret right, not go out to lunch for all the world to see.
2006-09-17 21:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're being a little paranoid. would two guys going to lunch together be considered a date too? or two girls? it's all the same. lunch is lunch. people like talking. it is not a hidden date. it is not anything. get over it.
2006-09-17 22:02:09 · answer #5 · answered by the man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lunch with a coworker is just lunch with a coworker, sex with a coworker is a whole different ballgame.
2006-09-17 21:56:08 · answer #6 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am friends with some of my co-workers. I talk about dofferent d=stuff between my guy friends & female friends. For example with a couple of guys I would talk about a certain girl.
2006-09-17 21:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋