Basically I am at a party and I am talking to some asian girl and my exgf's active bf comes up to me and is like "man i would love to bang her." I used to hate this kid, but we hang with the same people so we are chill. I am like "haha you are taken." He then begins to tell me that he cheats on his gf (my ex) regularly including 6 times this past summer. He ends the conversation with "but she is a really great girl so and so and i want to settle down with her." I am really kind of dumbfounded why he would tell me this and its not that I have feelings for her, cause I really dont but I kind of care about her and I think its wrong. I want to tell her but I think its a ***** move and it breaks the so called guy code or whatever. It really isn't my place but its a ****** up situation, cause she is a nice girl at heart and I feel bad. When he told me this I sort of dumbfounded, like why would you tell me this ? But I just was like "heh whatever" to him.
2006-09-17 21:16:30 · 12 answers · asked by beastfc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am wondering why he told you. Does he want you to tell?
Maybe ask him why the Helo he told you.
Sometimes it is best to let other people handle their own problems. I am not sure what I would do.
I think this is one of those things that you make a decision when you see her and open up your mouth.
2006-09-17 21:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's some little jealousy involve. Have you seen Mariah Carey's we belong together music video? Do exactly the same thing what that guy did.
ok, I was just kidding. If this guy is your best friend, then don't tell her I guess. But if he's just a friend then tell her.
careful, this might break a friendship.
2006-09-17 21:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her. Not because of some stupid guy code but because she will never believe it coming from you. May be she already knows and is in denial, considering how freely this guy goes aroung telling people about it. If you really want to help tell a friend of hers that you know she really trusts. Let her take it from there.
2006-09-17 21:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends, did you actually catch her cheating, or do you just suspect it? because it doesnt really sound like she actually cheated. you have to realized you have a very biased opinion and are going to be jealous of any girl he dates regardless of who she is, right? I think you're being catty, and should just leave it alone. if she really is actually cheating, he will find out eventually. Is she ok with you being so close with her boyfriend? I have to wonder how approrpriate it even is for the two of you to be so buddy buddy, even if you claim your intentions are innocent I cant imagine she would comfortable with how close her boyfriend is to his very recent ex girlfriend, you. I would recommend having respect for their relationship even if it pains you to do so, and back off on the closeness with your ex. and him, out of respect for his girlfriend he really needs to put his friendship with you on the back burner if he wants things to work out with her.
2016-03-27 06:49:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok this is alot to have in your heart. If the girl is nice why not just mention to her what you know it doesn't have to be the exact same words, just ask her to be careful about her current bf coz there are diseases out there and you are still friends i hope it wouldn't be pretty to have one of your pals die or suffer coz of someone else's ignorance and selfishness.
2006-09-17 21:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by Ycul72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong to tell in this one and only case. Beyond guys code you're the X. For so many karmic reasons you should have no participation in her relationships. If you care for her you should conspire to help her come across this information but under no circumstances should you be connected to it.
2006-09-17 21:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are stuck in between a rock and a hard place. If you tell her she may not believe you and if you don't and she finds out you knew then you will be in trouble for that.
Have someone that you can trust tell her that SHE over heard the conversation and what was said. Then when she asks you don't deny it.
2006-09-17 21:24:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shld tell ur ex-gf.
i know u dun have anymore feelings for her, but the important thing is u care as a fren.
2006-09-17 21:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not say a word u will regret it woman tend to take there mans side they are dumb like that and u'll suffer
2006-09-17 21:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by lynnlynnlynnj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend coz if something happened to her ud feel guilty abt it
2006-09-17 21:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by titties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋