Since guys who are impotent are used to getting turned down, I was wondering if they would be very protective of their girlfriend/wife. The guy that I am talking to told me several times that he wanted to be my slave, but I think that it sounds obsessive. I asked him why and he said that it was because he didn't want to hurt me.
2006-09-17 19:43:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a man who experiences what is called "erectile dysfunction" but avoids medication, and is in a committed relationship, I hope I might be helpful here (am I sounding obsessive?
I am TRULY in love with my lady, I desire her more than anyone I have ever met. However, my inability to maintain an erection has been a liability in 4 out of the 6 years we have been together. I suggested the option of an open relationship (which we've tried), but she's stated that she's found that unsatisfactory. This was a VERY big turn-on for me, but no cure for my impotence.
Very recently, I suggested that she could feel free to "use" me for sexual stimulation whenever she wished.
While she has taken advantage of this VERY rarely, the times she has taken the active role and INSISTED i service her (orally) have been the most intense and truly sexually fulfilling experiences of my life -- even on the occasions when I DON'T ejaculate (and believe me, ejaculating while soft is very nearly painful).
The fact that I have given her pleasure is a TRUE pleasure to me, and the fact that I bring her to climax multiple times before becoming exhausted (my jaw and tongue usually give out before SHE does), seems to have increased our romantic connection, and "necking" and cuddling have become our standard love-making. So far, this seems to be satisfactory to us both.
I hope this is helpful.
2006-09-17 20:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by kaioti07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a psycho to me and Id be outta there so fast, he couldnt see me through dust. Dont you know that alot of men that are impotent are abusive and controlling and have social disorders........be careful that you dont end up in a body bag half decayed.........he probably is obsessive (compulsive even?) He isnt playing with a complete deck of cards........
2006-09-17 19:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whether or not you should run away from this guy is determined by your inclination to be a sado dom. If you like whipping guys mounted on crosses, go for it. If not, haul it as fast as you can in the other direction.
2006-09-17 19:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Candidus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the dude sounds like a freak. he's impotent anyway (sorry guys with that prob.) so run far and fast from this disaster.
2006-09-17 19:48:22 · answer #4 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WOW! ummm...WOW! I think that you need to get out of that relationship right away it sounds sort of scary
GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-17 19:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by brigette b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋