2006-09-17 19:30:13 · 20 answers · asked by MARY ROSE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be second best for anyone. I know that you have feelings for this man, or you wouldn't be vying for his attention...but if he can't remain true to her...he won't with you.
I really wish I could help more...but I don't know what to say. The reason that he comes to you is that you offer him something his wife can't or won't. Be it emotional, physical, or intellectual comfort.
Girl, remain true to yourself. Demand the respect that you deserve.
2006-09-17 19:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah Jean 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh??? Are you serious?? If you are then you must be a fool. No matter how much a man tells you about how much he hates his wife and that she is a *****...so on and so forth, he is not leaving her. If he was he would have already. Don't think that he met you and just realised that you were his soul mate. He met you and took you for exactly what you wer, a dummy. Plain and simple! No matter what a man tells you about leaving his wife he's lying AND if he did leave his wife would you really want him? If he's cheated on her he'll cheat on and leave you. Remember this, all vagina feels the same when the lights go out. You have something that every other woman has.
2006-09-18 02:39:22 · answer #2 · answered by Rae C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u have to compete with anybody??if ur boyfriend likes his wife more than u,he would not be having this relationship with u.may be his wife needs to compete with u.just relax and enjoy ! u r an indiviasual,different from others.stay what u r.
2006-09-18 02:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't and can't compete with the wife.........your his crack whore that aint worth shyt other than an occasional root and the wife is the wife, she has the rights to him and I hope she finds out and rips his balls off and throttles you like there is no tomorrow..........
2006-09-18 02:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by Linda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's you love life why you want to compete! It's not a competition!
2006-09-18 02:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't and you can't. He isn't available to you and its time to understand that, move forward and find someone single.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-18 02:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are starting from a distant 2nd place. Wouldn't it be better to find a better guy than one who will cheat on his wife?
2006-09-18 02:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be better if u find a boyfriend with no wife
2006-09-18 02:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by xsxsxsx36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You dump the jerk who is getting freebies from both sides and find an emotionally available man who doesn't get his jollies off by having two women at his beck and call.
2006-09-18 02:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by Persephone 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
find a boyfriend that's free to be a boyfriend w/o the added baggage of a wife.....duh!
don't let him use u
cuz that's exactly what he's doing
he wants to have his cake and eat it too, and he's using u to do it
2006-09-18 02:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by gyrlundone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋