My husband and i been 2gether for 16 years and now it seems bored. The these we use 2 do he don't like doin anymore.We don't
go places that much anymore he likes bein at home all the time and i'm sick of the house now. We have 6 kids 2gether and now they r older and we don't have 2 be over them all the time so thats not the problem, so now i'm wonderin what can i do to spike up my marriage.
2006-09-17 19:30:08 · 6 answers · asked by Sweetpea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Develop interests... find the things you want to do, and get into them. In particular, things that are active and physical, that get you out with others. Do just yourself if you have to. Take dance classes, cooking classes, make a list of all the friends and places you want to visit. If he stays a bump on a log, then start planning some things to happen at home as well. If you get interested in doing things, and ask his advice, he'll start taking an interest too.
2006-09-17 19:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Sad-Dad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
16 years? great congratulations on a long enduring and happy marriage life. But what to do next to spice?
question back to you?
1. To spice sexual activities?
2. Or to have a better communication and exchange of ideas?
3. To be in love all over again:)?
2006-09-17 22:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by I,Dr.MF 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join something that you can share together. Maybe take up a sport, or start a new hobby together. Dance lessons can lead to many fun nights of dancing, or maybe think of doing a little traveling. Cruising is affordable and great fun. Nothing like a change of atmosphere to spice things up a bit...
2006-09-17 19:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the kids are over 16 and trustworthy, go away for a weekend with your man.
2006-09-17 19:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him at the door in a sexy nighty or something like that, or take him to an adult store and buy some toys
2006-09-17 20:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by flwrgrl692001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you're mad at eachother, instead of giving him an evil stare when he looks at you, pull out one of your boobs and lick it.....trust me: it'll remind him why he loves you instead of thinking you're a nasty person (or the B-word which I can't seem to say on these forums)
2006-09-17 19:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by AC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋