Theres this guy at the gym, whos really cute. I am leaving town in a week, but i really want to...get his attention. We look at each other a lot, but most of the time im the first one to look away as it gets so intimidating- how do i get more besides just gazing at each other without looking like an idiot? thanks!
2006-09-17 19:28:59 · 11 answers · asked by michelle9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sound like an adult , ask him if he wants to ''grab a cup of coffee'' sometime .........or a drink depending onif thats your thing or not .........or say maybe we can work out together next time ............anythng you say should be a start , you have to make youself known or its just gonna remain a stare down untill you split town ..............good luck
2006-09-17 19:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy who works out I can say there is sort of an unwritten rule that you do not come on to girls at the gym in fear you will be called a pervert.
You are gonna have to break the ice and say hi. Maybe ask a question about one of the exercies he is doing, like proper technique.
Even if you know the answer guys love any opportunity to show off their knowledge!!
So take it from there and you cant go wrong.
2006-09-17 19:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the best pick up line in the world. "Hi! My name is _____. What is yours?" You break the ice and you can begin conversing immediately. Granted he could make the first move and come to you and strike up the conversation, but don't be afraid to be bold and talk to him. People usually notice others when they are being addressed. LOL
2006-09-17 19:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm positive some do, yet you gotta save in concepts... they are childrens. they have quite some growing up and attending to renowned to do yet, so that they maximum likely are not searching for something complicated of their existence at present like severe relationships. in case you want a guy who needs love, relationships, dedication, you want to seek for someone older and extra mature. or in basic terms wait till eventually the kids improve up. yet that could want to take awhile =)
2016-11-27 21:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want no strings attached, one night stand, then go for it. Most people go to gyms not just to work out but to pick up one nighters.
2006-09-17 19:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey! you need to get him to notice you. ask for his help with using the machines or something. or better pretend you have twisted your ankle when there is no one around so he can be the one to help you. but if it was me i would just walk right up to him and try and befriend him. if he is a nice guy, he definately would not mind befriending you too. just be confident if you really want him to notice you .
good luck!
2006-09-17 19:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by botho m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to him kiss him,, tell him you want him and you only have a few days before you leave town,, if hes interested and has no ties,, hell probably jump at the chance,, if he doesnt respond or gets offended,, hes probably tied up in a relationship,,,,
2006-09-17 19:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by John C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sugguestive motions with the machine/ eqqipment you're using- this is at the gym so it shouldn't be too diffacult
2006-09-17 19:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by Pie Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i mean since both of u are in the same classes sayin hi wont hurt
2006-09-17 19:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to help you do something...or ask his advice on doing a certain exercise...
2006-09-17 19:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by matty.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋