By comfortable I mean she's not trying to impress me or anything, she's just being herself.
2006-09-17 19:21:25 · 32 answers · asked by adamvanessen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GOOD F***ING QUESTION!
2006-09-17 19:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Okay, well...you probably won't want to ask her directly -- i know i wouldn't! If you can thats great. But first, try and notice the way she acts around other people...is she comfortable too? Or like bring up the guys she has liked before and be a normal good friend who just wants to talk. You will probably get some idea of how she acts with a guy she likes. Most girls get a bit nervous around a guy for awhile, but it fades away quite quickly for some. She could just be really comfortable around you, knowing your comfortable with her- and might be wondering the same thing. If this is all too complicated- then just ask her, and without saying you like her just tell her your confused. Good luck!
P.s- this may just be my belief- but i do not believe that a man and a woman can be just..purely platonic without a pass of sensuality here and there. its just, illogical.
2006-09-17 19:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by michelle9 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's very nice when a girl feels comfortable around you but it only means that she is comfortable around you. Don't try to guess what someone may be thinking about you because you will end up very confused, just as you seem to be right now. The best way to know how someone feels about you is simply to ask. If you don't want to ask, then wait patiently to see what the future holds with this person.
2006-09-17 19:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could be either or
She could like u or she could just want to be ur friend
Some girls are themselves around everybody (like myself)
So u really don't know if they like u unless they do something distinctive from their usual behaviour to let u know
My advice is continue on doing what the two of u do and if she likes u it will naturally evolve into something
if she just wants to be ur friend then it will just stay the same and u'll know
But then again she could be waiting for u to make a move, but be careful cuz if that's not the case then u'll end up looking and feeling arkward around her since u like her and she didn't see u that way
Hell, women are complicated
Men just say what they want
women....that's another story
2006-09-17 19:27:15 · answer #4 · answered by gyrlundone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That most definitely depends on the girl! Every girl is unique - some girls will get nervous around u if they like you, others will feel they are most comfortable around you if they like you. My advice is to ask her about it, or just see what she does with you...
2006-09-17 19:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by tropicanagirl_cp_302 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably means she sees you as a friend dude. People are usually a little nervous around people they want to have a relationship with.
2006-09-17 19:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be either one. Sometimes people are just more comfortable around some people than other people. It doesn't always mean she wants more than friendship.
2006-09-17 19:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she's young, and she's acting comfortable around you, then she sees you as one more person in the world. If she's mature, then she probably likes you.
2006-09-17 19:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by SheDevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good thing , I say dont try to read into what it means and just enjoy what you have now and maybe it will blossom into more , dont worry or add any pressure ,but if she is comfortable then you got a good chance she digs you at least on some level , but you dont want to ruin a good thing by adding unnec essarry pressure .............go with the flow,,,,,,,,,
2006-09-17 19:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sees you as a friend.
2006-09-17 19:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it could be that she really likes you or she really doesn't. If she is smiling and uncomfortable in her body language, she likes you. If she is not smiling, then it is her passive way to tell you to get lost. It could also mean that she is shy and have a hard time opening up to you.
2006-09-17 19:26:52 · answer #11 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋