What should I do, ladies?
I am asking a girl to a dance... how should I ask, and while there what sould I talk to her about?
I think I should stick a rose to her locker and slip a note onside... that way I can avoid being so nervous when I ask. is that a bad idea... any better ones?
P.S If you look at my profiles questions, I bet you can tell how much I like her.
2006-09-17 19:19:16 · 10 answers · asked by steve 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, what should I right on the note?
2006-09-17 19:36:25 · update #1
this is the note I wrote... does anyone have anything they think I should add/ take away?
2006-09-17 20:14:32 · update #2
Hi Kristene,
Hope that you don’t have plans Friday, because I was hoping that you would want to meet me at the dance in the front of the building. It has taken me a long time to start talking to you since P.E last year (I was the Basketball team caption, 3rd trimester, and, now have English and History with you). I really hope you like me as much as I like you, because I have always liked you a lot. I would love to meet up with the most beautiful I’ve seen for a dance or two. (It’s embarrassing for be to dance to up tempo songs because I’m such a bad dancer.)
Steve.
2006-09-17 20:14:56 · update #3
I think it would have been sweet as hell if someone had ever done anything like that for me. Girls are sappy and love the romantic stuff. I think that way is perfect!!! And talk to her about anything. If you're nervous, try the small stuff first. Things like music, movies, pets. I think you better hurry before she already has a date. Do the rose thing. It's great!!
2006-09-17 19:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by debbiethornberry007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a lady, but I've got some exp.
I've found the bast thing to do is approach her face to face. Don't ask when she's got friends around cause then they'll just clown on you. Instead of asking her right at that moment, just ask her for her number, tell yu have something you want to talk about, and can you call her that night. If she gives her number as a friend, she's more likely to go to the dance with you right?
If you think you'll get nervous on the phone try to call from a public place while your doing something, or call her while your doing something at the house. If you start to put your foot in your mouth tell her that your sorry, the task at hand is getting out of control and you'll call her right back.
DON"T plan a little script out, however you ask her. It won't go the way you plan and you'll look like a dork.
2006-09-18 02:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by The Bowling League Champion!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she'll reject you? if yes, go for it anyways.. but if you're too shy to ask her to her face, the rose on the locker thing is Sweet! :) not a bad idea.
And if no, you got nothing to worry about... right?
-what to talk about while there? well, if you guys don't have anything to talk about, just start a conversation by asking simple questions like, hows school?-what did you do today?- And tell her how beautiful she is!!!
2006-09-18 02:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Kina-Bunny*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen the one category of guys a women hates most are the spine lees ones.No backbone no love.Ask her face to face.The other bonus is that if she's on the fence about dating you,it's a lot tougher to decline an invite when your looking at the person.Man up dude.And give her the flowers as a thankyou after the date.Pink roses.Sent to her workplace if possible.
2006-09-18 02:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your idea of asking her to the dance is perfect as long as you don't accompany it with a really cheesy note. You could write something like "this rose comes with a question, will you come to the dance with me and bring this rose with you?" I think this is the best idea. I'm sure she'll go if she's interested.
2006-09-18 02:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rose might be a little over the top. If you're nervous,stick your hands in your jeans pockets or coat pocket. You don't have to talk while dancing, but just look her in the eye, smile and simply state, "I'd like to take you to the dance, will you go with me?" And if she says no, then nod, smile, and say, "Ok, well I tried," and move on.
2006-09-18 02:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Persephone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident about it and ask her face to face. Switch on the charm, no note in my locker would make me want to go to a dabce with someone if I didn't like him.
And don't talk when dancing, just turn on the moves and impress.
2006-09-18 02:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by stj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like confidence. so you should comb your hair, put on your nicest shirt and get you butt over there and ask her. if you want to give her the rose that fine too. If you give it to her in front of her friends, that's major points for you.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-18 02:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by mariposa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude man this is the most pathetic question ever. get some guts and talk to the girl u fool!
2006-09-18 02:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's really romantic... go 4 it
2006-09-18 02:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by J Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋