I recently got out of my first serious relationship. I loved this girl with all my heart. I still do. But things just didn't work out. If we had it my way we'd still be together. But she doesn't want me back. Anyway, I have kind of moved on, but not really. I just started seeing this new girl two days ago and she is in the same boat as me. She just got out of a serious relationship as well and we really connect. But the thing is, I can't tell if our connection is true or not. I mean, since we are in the same boat, then maybe we are both just looking for a quickie-rebound and we don't even know it. I can't tell if I am just physically attracted to this girl or if I actually have feelings for her, because I'm wierd and my heart sometimes doesn't know the difference. I know that if my ex girlfriend ever called me and wanted me back then I'd go right back to her. And I know this new girl would do the same. But our exes aren't going to call us, ever. Does that make it ok?
2006-09-17 19:10:07 · 12 answers · asked by ks_stud_2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just move on. Find someone else. I will take some time before you stop thinking about her. Wish you all the best.
2006-09-17 19:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by A K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aight bud....no girl in the world is worth this much trouble. You need to relax and be confident in your feelings. If things dont work out with this new girl then take a breather and try with a different girl. And as far as looking for a quick rebound...just ask yourself if you feel like you are transferring your feelings for your ex to this new girl. If you feel that you are then maybe you should just be friends for a while and see if the feelings go away or if they get stronger. Ive been there bubba, keep your head up and good luck!!
2006-09-17 19:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-16 16:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some time to yourself. After a breakup, you're a different person from before you met the person you broke up with. Believe it or not, we change during a relationship. Our thoughts, feelings, and the way we look at life change because we actually learn from our significant other. We discover things about ourselves and we mature. You need time to find yourself before starting another relationship. Go out, have fun, hang out with your friends or try to meet new ones. After a while, you will find yourself ready to start anew with someone else, but let it happen naturally. Don't go out there looking for someone. Let destiny do its job.
2006-09-17 19:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by SheDevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this girl out. If ya'll connect then give it a shot, and see how things work out, but don't ruin it to go back to a girl that might leave you again.
2006-09-17 19:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking too much and holding on too long. Let the first girl go and don't put too much stock in the second girl. You have not yet moved on. Do so.
2006-09-17 19:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 02:27:09 · answer #7 · answered by marceau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only Time Will Tell!!! Just take it easy and see what develops. Don't over Analyze your relationships!
2006-09-17 19:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it day by day....cause your both hurting and both vulnerable.
2006-09-17 19:16:20 · answer #9 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time and remember those who matter dont mind, and those who mind dont matter
2006-09-17 19:13:18 · answer #10 · answered by NYGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋