what would you feel in letting go of someone you love?

Answer 1

Pain, too painful. Until I found that letting go doesn't necessarily lose the person to me. He/she stays on in my heart and the pain becomes positive.

Answer 2

I'll feel so badly hurt. But sometimes, letting go is the only way for two people to go on with their own lives. I've let go of the first guy i've ever loved, and it was really painful. But 8 months later, we're back together again and we're getting married. lol

Answer 3

You would feel hurt, loss, anger, pain, acceptance - and you would continue to go through this cycle until eventually the cycle was just an instant of time. It's the natural grieving process and it is done in more than just death - many people do not realize just how much grieving is such a natural thing in our lives - but the process is the same and sometimes it takes longer to get through one portion than another, but each time you make the complete cycle, is healing, and it does become such a quick process that the mere mention of the name can run you through the whole process in less than a second.

Answer 4

It would depend on who it was, for instance, if it were my spouse or lover it would be a great heartache, but then time does tend to heal but memories can last a lifetime. If, on the other hand it is someone with say a terminal illness I think of them as going to a better place with an end to any suffering they may have and they are at peace.

Answer 5

Very hurt, depressed and angry. I have been through it and I believe that never giving up on love is the key. I don't mean just romance, but the laws of love in general. There is always another chapter around the corner to look forward to.

Answer 6

Well it sucks.

There was a girl I really loved for a year or so.
We had been friends for around 3 years.
And you know what they say...friends make the best couples.

I was about to move back to the states (I met her in Singapore when I lived there for 5 years) and I thought it was about time I told her how I feel.

Turns out she wound up telling me first :D
So we found out we both felt the same way...
but by then it was too late to do anything.

It sucks because even though we stay in touch, we can never be anything more. And something tells me that she was the ONE.

Answer 7

like i lost a hudge part of my hart, empty, not hungry, not tired, pretty mad sad when u do get hungry u cant eat u dont no what to do u look around and sometimes there the only ones to go to and there gone so u get even more sick ive had it happen before hurt u think of all the things u did with them every where u go u remember something u did with them

Answer 8

i feel miserable. (right now) cuz i dumped my boyfriend 2 days ago. i feel like i need to be independent and do what i need to do, until i have time for him, and until i'm happy with my life, then i'll ask him back & i hope it won't be too late. i believe in true love; a love that is everlasting. if he really loved me, he won't do anything to hurt me & probably wait for me. if he had a changed of heart, i just wish him the best and i hope he'll have a wonderful life with his new girlfriend. =) love is not selfish, neither do i. i trust him & i love him, even when we're not together. =) thanks for the 2 points & thanks for wasting your precious/valuable time reading this long message. i hope you'll have a great day!

Answer 9

Joy, I'd only let them go if it was for their best benefit. Only If they truly wanted it. If you truly loved them, you'd look for their happiness. If you're looking for your own happiness. That's something totally different. Not love. Intense infatuation. Love is wanting the best for what you're in love with. No matter what that entails for you.

Answer 10

there are mixed emotions there. you see i am one who has many mixed emotions, when my grandfather died i was numb(didn't want to admit he was gone), when my grandmother died it was relief that she had no more pain and i know she is with Jesus and happy, her memory was clear again, when my aunt died it was upset that we part badly, (i thought she hated me, later finding out i was actually her favorite) when my uncle passed it was pain (he was someone who shared so much of the same direction in my life. he was the only family member that treated my husband respectfully, ) letting go can be hard to do, i think of them often and find myself wishing they were here to talk to. you may let go of their life around you, but you never let go of the memories and teaching they instilled in your life.