ok so there was this guy that I was in a relationship with for about a month or 2 and before that we were really good friends and had such an amazing connection we talked for at least 5 hours every night....but then we broke up cuz I was moving away he ended up calling me names for no reason and just being a jackass it has been a month now and we havent spoken really but I just cant stop thinking about him or get him out of my head I just really miss that connection with someone and Im fighting my temptation to call him but it's really hard and I just want to stop thinking about him and I want to stop wanting to talk to him how do I do it??? I know we werent together all that long but I really cared about him and have never felt a stronger connection with anybody what should I do?
2006-09-17 17:24:41 · 13 answers · asked by paperback_writer909 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thats weird...the same EXACT thing happened to me.
I called him =)
We talked for about three hours.
He likes me now.
But I don't feel the same anymore.
Call him.
2006-09-17 17:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by blender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know there is the possiblity that he's going through the same thing as you, "fighting the temptation to call you also," even after he made a fool of himself. and being a male u know they can't help themselves at time when it comes to expressing themselves so maybe that's way he called u names, sounds a bit immature, but it's actions like this that sometimes say that they are trying to hard sometime, usually how they really feel about something.
girl if i were u, i would take the first step, the mature step would be the right thing to call it. "CALL HIM." and then u can take it from there. good luck!
2006-09-17 17:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by Rissa P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on! that man is an idiot, he cant even tell it to you in a mature way that he does not want you to go away
if he loves you indeed then he could have done something to make it work
bottom line here is: HE DOES NOT LOVE YOU,AND DID NOT LOVE YOU AT ALL
if he did he would not try to hurt you just like that CALLING YOU NAMES, he does not have the right to do that, he did not even respect you
and you, you still think about him?
well throw away everything that will remind you of him.
redecorate your room
do something new, something adventurous and challenging, focus your energy on helping others, there are thousands of way s to help, learn how to dance, paint, sing, learn a new hobby
think about this, he does not love you there is no point in holding on you deserve better, you can have that amazing connection with another man , even better, he is not the only man in this world, but he is one of those men who chose to disrespect you
get up and stand up. dont allow any man to destroy you or say nasty things to you, he does not have the right to occupy your special time and mind!
2006-09-17 17:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give up this battle of pride and call the dude! i bet u anything he is in the exact position you are. He probably has his hand near the phone debating if he should call and apologize. Stop being stubborn and talk to each other! why waste time being mad? it really doesnt accomplish anything. Just call him, apologize for fighting and he will apologize too and u will be friends again. U are just putting urself in emotional anguish by postponing what has to be done at one point or another anyway. :) Good luck!
2006-09-17 17:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Dead Birds Don't Poop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off calling you names?? u should be able to 4 get in by the next morning. Also no better cure than finding someone else who you like to talk 2 for hrs. life is full of break ups and nake ups. its how we learn to accpet that crazy fact and go on. sounds to me ur a great person i bet you will have no trouble in the finding someone else department good luck.
2006-09-17 17:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Broken hearts can take a long time to heal. Stay busy, find something that interests you but doesn't remind you of him. Begin dating other people and eventually you will find someone that takes away the pain.
2006-09-17 17:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sad but true.. sometimes S**T happens.. get out... live life and think about anyone else you can think of. Time heals
2006-09-17 17:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him Tell him how you feel. And if he really cares for you. you will get your answer
2006-09-17 17:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by hotrdcars9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call.....if he turned on u like that.....thats not right.....u have to fight that temptation.....i get like that too....kinda lonely wanna dredge up things that arent good for me....kinda bored need drama.....fight it, find something to do...read, go walking, eat ice cream...thats where im at.
2006-09-17 17:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fing someone else and move on.
2006-09-17 17:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋