I recently had a girl break-up with me. She said that she felt I wasn't confident. What is this really all about?
2006-09-17 17:17:54 · 5 answers · asked by The_Chocolate_Moose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To the second answer: yeah... whenever I begin dating I often feel that I'm trying to balance on a high wire while holding onto the support that's holding the wire, there's only so far you can go...
In plain language, I stop doing those things that help me feel calm and focused (i.e. confident) such as reading God's Word (a meditation for me) and prayer.
I can get too focused on "trying to make it happen"
2006-09-17 17:26:04 · update #1
There is nothing more attractive than a confident guy. Confidence starts with self-esteem. A confident guy feels good about themselves, they are not jealous, and they know what they want for themselves and for their partner they're involved with. When you're confident you have goals and aspirations in life, and you expect your partner to have goals and aspirations for their life too. You do not live your life for another person, in other words, you are not needy. Girls do not like to be smothered, they like a confident guy who can keep them on their toes. Girls like a guy who is a challenge, they like a guy that keeps them guessing, and isn't always available. It's just the way we are, we want to date bad boys, and marry good guys. Unless you are ready for marriage, you'd better learn to keep the ladies on their toes. You don't have to be especially attractive to be confident, but you do have to think that you have a lot to offer someone. Confidence is one of those qualities that is a must to attract a partner.
2006-09-17 17:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having confidence makes a person more attractive to others. No one wants to be around someone whose insecure and unsure of themselves. But not so much that one becomes vain though!
2006-09-18 00:25:11 · answer #2 · answered by south_lido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem with my boyfriend. He lacks confidence. Confidence is a very sexy thing and personally, when a guy has confidence it turns me on. you didnt turn her on. thats all there is to it. i would need to know more details about what happened but you just didnt float her boat, and thats okay.
2006-09-18 00:20:28 · answer #3 · answered by california gurlie poo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she felt that you didnt have goals! She wants a man with a plan!
2006-09-18 00:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confident: - with faith, Latin
Who/what do you have faith in? God, yourself, your abilities, your social skills?
2006-09-18 00:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋