and im pretty unconfident about my body but idk if i should cuz im scared that ima do sumthin wrong... so should i or shouldnt i
2006-09-17 16:22:36 · 13 answers · asked by BaByGuRl0913 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
i'm guessing your birthday is sept 13th if so happy belated birthday. but i'm not sure of the year. guessing about 14 15. i say no. hell no to be exact. being unconfident about your body does not matter. being unconfident about this guy does. I'm not much older than you but listen to me please. do you know where this guy has been. do you know that he has no std's. i'm 20. 3 of my friends have hiv, one used a condom and still got it. my cousin and 4 friends have herpes, 6 of my friends have hpv (genital warts) and one had chlymidia but got rid of it. the only curable one. diseases are not uncommon. trust me. if you would like to talk to some of these friends of mine, they will tell you they all contracted this before the age of 18. and another thing, what happens if you end up pregnant? are you ready for that. that is ALWAYS a possibility when you have sex no matter which kind or how much protection you use. will this guy support the baby? will he be around? will you be left alone with this. you must think of all of the possibilities and do not take this lightly. you could not only be giving this guy your virginity, but your whole future as well. good luck and please if you won't take my advice, at least consider it. and if you would like to speak to any of my friends email me and i will send you their email addresses.
2006-09-17 18:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep your virginity honey, and keep your self-respect and your dignity. When you are truly in love with someone, and you know that that man will be with you to stay, and not just use you for the sex, or better yet, when you are married, you can give your virginity with confidence knowing that you made the right choice.
If this guy pressures you to have sex with him, dump him, because he is only after the sex, and when it's over you will feel terrible and he will brag and talk bad about you to other guys.
2006-09-17 16:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by brendalyn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No no no no....don't do it. If you aren't sure, then don't. Remember this quote, "When in doubt, do without" or "Doubt means don't"
If you aren't ready and do it anyway, you'll regret it. Having sex will not make you feel any better about yourself. If you have to have sex with a guy to keep him, then you don't need the jerk. Save yourself for "the one" You'll be glad you did. You can be like those other girls who have sex any day, but they can NEVER be like you again!
2006-09-17 16:26:14 · answer #3 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should wait till you are comfortable with the person you are with. sex is great but the first time anyone has sex they think they are doing something wrong and it is a very uncomfortable but it gets better. and you should wait till you are in love with the person. but in the end you are the only one that can decide if you are really. if you have questions maybe your not ready. just be safe.
2006-09-17 16:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think that u sould have to do anything that you dont want to do. being a virgin isnt a bad thing. man me and my boyfriend have decided to wait until that we are certain that we r ready. and there isnt anything wrong about that!
sex is something u share with someone that u really love. not something you do just cos someone wants u 2. it comes down to your choice!
2006-09-17 17:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a virgin your not meant to know that's the beauty of it.only do what you feel is right and i your ready didnt be pressured and you are beautiful not matter what you think you look like other wise you wouldn't be here asking
2006-09-17 16:28:47 · answer #6 · answered by silkvixen80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
virginity is meaningless really. if you are worried and unsure, don't bother but, if you feel like you want to have sex. go ahead just be safe about it. use condoms at least. get on the pill or use another form of contraceptive as well. the first time might not be so pleasant but, it gets better.
2006-09-17 16:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wait until you are married. Sex is for married adults only. Teens do not need sex. Grow up and do your homework!
2006-09-17 16:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advise to you no sex before marriage,,take care and all best.
2006-09-18 01:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by 126126 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex until you are in love!
2006-09-17 16:24:59 · answer #10 · answered by Dorothy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋