I don't want to have to interpret this... JUST PLAIN AND SIMPLE... How do you feel? What do you say? Do you have to be able to see/hear someone to have feelings for them or is it just an instinct that you can detect anywhere by the words someone uses? Do you feel like all you want to do is spend time with her or talk? (or him for girls???) Is there really a true meaning of love? It's not describable with human terms, is it?
If your married or have already started dating, when did you start dating? JUST WONDERING... Did you think it was too early or too late or JUST RIGHT?
2006-09-17 16:19:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-17 16:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥livin_life_and_lovin_it♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is alot of things; its a look, a touch, a voice, that sends little shocks through your whole body. It is going to bed and having your last thoughts on this one person and waking up to the same thoughts.It is not something you can touch only something you can feel. You can fall in love with someone before you see them and no it has no definate definitian!! I have been with my fiance for 5 years and i have known since day one that he was the one. He didnt tell me he loved me for 1 year and 1 month and he asks me now why i stayed and i tell him i could see how much he loved me when i looked in his eyes and i could here it in the way he said my name and you know what i still see it and hear it! So i cant give you an exact answer but i can tell you that when it happens you will know because there is nothing like it in this world. And as long as she wants to see you and talk to you all the time it is normal. I started dating when i was 15 and i have no regrets in my life so i guess it was the right age!!
2006-09-17 23:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by kevinsnickle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't really give too much advice on this since I am still figuring it out myself. I don't think anyone really has it all figured out. I've been married to a great guy for 7 years, but still have feelings for someone else. I started dating at age 13; 28 years old now. I think the timing was right for me. The age to start dating really depends on what each person is ready for and what is right for them. I love my hubby and would do anything to keep him happy & healthy. Would never want him to suffer at all; but I do love someone else so much that it drives me crazy. Have not and will not act on it because I will honor my vows. The other person and I have never met in person, only spoken & e-mailed (met through work). Conversation/e-mails never cross the line; but we talk about everything and have a connection that cannot be explained. If I was not married, I would not think twice about running clear across the United States to this man.
2006-09-17 23:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dictionary defines love as an ineffable feeling toward a person. That answer is short, and kind of vague.
Love is when you find someone, and you feel like they are more important to you than yourself, that you'd do anything for them, and that they'd do the same for you. You don't have to be able to see the person, or hear the person. You can just feel it.
The reason this is so hard to explain is that love seems to transcend through time, space, distance, race....anything really. It's one of the oldest and purest of human emotions...and it's simplicity is what makes it so hard to explain.
Bottom line is, no one can TELL you if you're in love, you just know it.
If you're interested this link: http://theunauthorizeddictionary.blogspot.com/2006/08/love-beyond-hype.html
I go more in depth with it there I think. Just click the link and go to "entries".
Till next time,
Raven
2006-09-17 23:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a couple to have a long term relationship, love must be mutual. That is:
1. Accept each other's differences
2. Respect for each other's values
3. Consult each other on decisions that affect the other party directly or indirectly
4. Not harbouring negative feelings against the other
5. Trust and communication must be there
2006-09-17 23:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh people are retarted love is a feeling. its really hard to explain but if you love someone something in your body or mind i should put it ...lets you know...you know if its just..i cant stop thinking i about this person or blah blah blah thats a crush.. love is something where you think you cant do anything with out that one person at your side and is your best friend and you can trust them with all your secret's ...love's a feeling and trust...
2006-09-17 23:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't love someone until you know them well. there is no love at first sight. there is lust at first sight though. love is basically a connection of personalities and a very, very deep affection for each other. and keep in mind that love is unselfish. you want to give everything you can to the other person to make him or her happy.
2006-09-17 23:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by Cayce A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love = Agape.
2006-09-17 23:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not a feeling. It is a behavior.
2006-09-17 23:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by EE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is beautiful but like you know...you get hurt by love..but love makes you a better person and stronger!
2006-09-17 23:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋